Why This Girl Is So Confused About Her Feeling ...Advice Plz ???

I'm not sure but maybe as of now, she don't loves you yet. Maybe she considered you more of a friend or a brother. Right now, she is still not sure about her feelings, yes she cares for you but not sure if she loves you. Just continue your kindness to her. Or what if you court her formally. Give her roses, chocolates, and other things a boy gives to the girl he loves. Let her feel that she is the most special girl. Treat her like a princess. Time will come that she will be sure that she loves you too. Good luck! Happy myLotting!

As I have always said love has to be nurtured.It doesnt grow or sprout in a blink of an eye.What I mean here is just give her sometime to reassess herself.Its better to jump into a relationship when everything is sure and accurate than forcing it and just fail bitterly.I think she is confused if she is just enjoying your company as a friend, coz sometimes its misleading.Enjoy your friendship for the moment.Besides, when you end up together friendship would still one of the factors that will bind you closer. Wish you best shanrocks.Keep loving.

Hi shanrocks666. Maybe she is afraid to tell you that she loves you. She may not be ready to get so serious with you. That is what it sounds like to me. Or maybe she is not ready to settle down. She probably feels that if she tells you that she loves you, that you will think that she is very serious about being with you.

As to love,everyone has different views.Some people think that love is comfortable.Some people insist on love needs passion.Others may keep the point of that love should be treated seriously.... In my opinion,love needs a moment,at which she would feel happy with you around her, and can't go on if she's lost you. I believe everyone in love must have a moment of his or her own.What you need is to be patient to wait for her moment of feeling love. Wish you happiness for ever. Happy mylotting~

In my opinion, There are many reasons why a girl feel confused about her feelings for a guy. One of the great factor that can affect in her confusion, is the fear to enter into a new commitment in life in such a way she thinks that her experiences and past relationship was not successful and had gotten this feeling to carry over the same feeling at present with you. The second factor of her confusion, is her present status in life like her family and other contributors around her that she think may affect the new relationship. Thirdly, she is in the stage where she feels not secured and the affection and attention she needed is not quite that enough for her to reconsider herself be committed again. I suggest that you analyze her by knowing her life well, her past experiences, her thoughts and views about being in a relationship when committed. With proper communication and understanding of your own sharing thoughts, this will enlighten you with your questions. The best advise I can say is talking to her sincerely and showing her the affection that you are able to understand what she is going through, and your support for her will mean most and appreciated.

Oh she could be afraid on falling into someone not right for her. You see, if she cares about you and knows that you love her, it doesn't mean that she loves you too. She could be just infatuated to you and it's very different from love, infatuation makes you feel that you are really in love but you are not. It's more of the feelings at the moment, because everything is going so well for both of you. She could be avoiding that, so I'm guessing that she may be still looking for more hints or signs that will really make her say that she really loves you. You have to learn to be patient, if she says she's still confused, let her think about it all, and if you just can't wait, maybe you don't really love her.

It seems that you are good friend to her. She appreciates your company and she wants to be in your company. But she does not seem sure about her feelings. Don't pressure her, give her time. Don't pretend anything extra, Be a good friend of her and see how things proceed. If your friendship develops into love than it is fantastic,if not keep her as a good friend.

It is difficult to answer this question. Only she knows how she feels for you. Is it just affection or love etc. You can try talking to her and finding out what exactly she thinks about you and the relationship she shares with you. And you too might need to do some things to know a few facts. Just make yourself busy and don't be available for a while. Sometimes in those times when we don't have someone that we realize how much we are attached to that person. When they are with us 24x7 and whenever we want then we might take them for granted and not realize how they impact our lives. You need to be patient. And also skillful. If she is young she might be hesitant to commit herself to a relationship and she might be thinking about how her parents might react etc. So just give her a free space and ask her to take her own time and make up her mind. Don't force her and always tell that 'her happiness is your happiness' There is no sure shot way to understand a person, you need to be patient. Wish you all the best! Happy Mylotting!

Maybe she really likes you but she is confused if that feelings can be called love. She is talking to you always, girls who doesnt like a guy wont spend time with them. Surely you both have mutual feelings but she is not yet sure of it.

According to your description of your girlfriend,I think there could be two kinds of possibilities. One is that she really loves very much but has a fear in her heart as she has witnessed unfavorable and unfaithful relationships before which generated uncertain feelings in her inner heart that cause doubts about the link between you two. Buddy,I think this is even more difficult to convince her that you will be faithful to her forever than to cheer her by telling her that you think the world of her. There will be a lot of work to do then. Maybe you should take her to church and soothe her your love to her.I don't mean that you must marry her at once,but suggest that you enhance her love for you. Another possibility is that her opinion toward relationship is not serious enough as she does not trust herself in that she might not be as loyal and persistent as you are,and it will give way to cowardness undermining her love for you.You can ask her whether she will love you as long as she can. If she hesitates,I suppose you can get to know something. Good luck!Wish you a wonderful relationship!

man, the same thing is pretty much happening to me right now, and i now how you feel. its the worst feeling waiting for someone you no you love to realize that they cant be without you and that they ultimately love you too. All a guy can really do i guess is wait it out and try not to push the subject and see where life takes him. If only girls were a little simpler :)

It is hard to figure what a girl is thinking right now. Better yet, she doesn't even know for herself whether she loves you or not. Well, you might need to give her time and space to consider this question seriously.

She is definitely confused, please do not make it harder for her by pressuring her because she might end up giving you an unfavorable answer. Just take your time getting to know and getting use to each other. She likes you a lot, that is for sure but taking the relationship to the next level might not be a good idea for now. Take your time.

Maybe she is wondering if she could do better... I mean , if she loved u without any reservations , there wouldn't be this problem, now would there? Or...she is not sure if she wants to get into a relationship again after getting hurt in the past by someone else. Just woo her. Sweep her off her feet with romantic stuff. Search the internet for something on this subject.

Love is not taught in school and falling in love doesn't come everyday in our life. She is unsure because she is ignorant of how real love feels. Who isn't? It is not sickness that one can see a doctor and get healed. The feeling of in love is unique and beyond description. It just happen at anytime when we meet that special someone which keep stirring our heart. It makes our adrenalin and blood rushing madly along the veins which keeps us feeling like we are in cloud 9. The excitement when ever we see each other is the onset of the love virus attacking every core of our bodies. Don't get confuse and let the feeling of love flow naturally in her. Let her be swept by that strong tornado of love and beg you to come to her. That is the sweetest moment when love is getting stronger at each passing time.

hello shanrocks, i am also a girl...so maybe,she is too shy to admit that she loves you. Giving attention to a guy,talking too much time in phone and caring are gestures of having a feeling towards someone. The only problem is...she can't decide wether to admit or not about her feelings. besides,never forced her to tell you what she really feels as of now. Let the love grows and rooted ,so,it would have a good foundation too .

I believe she cares for you a lot, but I do not believe it is love in the eros or agape sense, I'd go with Ludus. (Ludus is the type of love in which the person enjoys your attention, but in reality the affection is rather one sided.

Confused? Maybe because she is not ready yet to commit herself. Just give her more time. The fact that she talks to you for hours on the phone, she is feeling something to you too shanrocks... I remember, i was once like that too back on my high school days... I really don't know how to react and how to answer such questions... though I am sure that I like him so much...

Maybe she cares of you in a diffent way, more like a friend, and knows that she could hurt you, telling what she really feels.

Hey Buddy I understand your situation very well. As I have gone through this. What I can advice you is, just focus on your efforts, try to do what ever she like and try to keep her happy. And when ever you get chance don't miss to dance I mean to say when ever she gives you any hint that she want to take decision, give her full support and prove you are the best guy for her. If it is really true that you love her from the bottom of your heart then she will definitely give you green signal to run the life line with you. Best Of Luck!!!!!!!