Which is more important for you?

Philippines
February 23, 2010 5:02am CST
Which is more important for you? Being loved by someone or loving someone? Choose one and explain why.
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@anc457 (186)
• Thailand
24 Feb 10
i dont want to choose, can we just meet half way? coz it's so biased when i choose, i dont want the idea hehehe
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• India
23 Feb 10
in my view it is more important for the person you are being loved by the person because if someone loves you than that cares for you and is loyal to you if even if you don't love that person but if you give importance to your love than in that case it is not necessary that that person may be loyal to you or may be interested in your life in your happiness because you love that person and their is no surety that he loves you so always try to goes importance to a person that loves you the most as their is saying that when you are happy you go to person to whom you love but if you are sad than you share feelings with the person that loves you the most so in my point of view i says that you should pay attention to person who loves you the most. if their is the case that both loves each other very much than their is no case for discussion.
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• Bangladesh
30 Mar 10
Hey friend, I like to be loved. But I love to love. "Why?" Well, It's my nature to love which I inherited from my parents. To me, loving someone is more important than being loved. Have a loving day.
@Genericbe (1376)
• Philippines
23 Feb 10
I will choose being loved by someone. This is more important for me because IF i am loved by someone, I can feel security for myself that I am loved and in return I can love him the way he loved me. This is a rewarding thing for me and my existence. This only proves that I am worthy to be loved as well. Given with all the chances in love, I can express also my love by loving him the way I wanted to give and share with him.
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• United States
23 Feb 10
If I really have to choose between the two, then I will choose to love someone and express that love to make that person happy. This love may not be requited but as long as I can contribute something to that person's happiness, I am contented.
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• Philippines
28 Feb 10
"which wing is more important to fly: the left wing or the right wing?" it's just the same concept. :D
• Philippines
28 Feb 10
hey! that's my line!
• Philippines
28 Feb 10
it's okei!! :D i'm just reminding you..
• Philippines
8 Mar 10
I rather choose loving someone. I choose it because loving someone makes me happy. If you are the one taking care of him, serving him and do everything to make him happy you can be happy too. I will never be happy with someone who loves me when in the first place I don’t like him. If the I love him and he loves me too, meaning there is a give and take in the relationship and I am willing to give everything as long as I love who loves me. The only disadvantage of loving someone that doesn’t love you is when you get tired of it and you will feel you have been abandoned and you feel total jerk about everything you have done.
• Philippines
8 Mar 10
I rather choose loving someone. I choose it because loving someone makes me happy. If you are the one taking care of him, serving him and do everything to make him happy you can be happy too. I will never be happy with someone who loves me when in the first place I don’t like him. If the I love him and he loves me too, meaning there is a give and take in the relationship and I am willing to give everything as long as I love who loves me. The only disadvantage of loving someone that doesn’t love you is when you get tired of it and you will feel you have been abandoned and you feel total jerk about everything you have done.
@whyaskq (7523)
• Singapore
25 Feb 10
I used to think that being loved by someone is blissful and the most important. However, I have realised that this is not so. No matter how well one can control his emotions, to be loved by someone whom you do not love can be as annoying to the extent of feeling harassed. I would choose to love someone as I could be in control of my own emotions.
• China
25 Feb 10
i think they are the same to me. the one whom i love, cant give his love to me, i feel painful abt it. but the the one who loves me, find me all the time, even when i told him i didnt love him, taking me lots of troulbe. bad feeling. so i'd prefer to be alone, now than cant find someone who love me and i love him too.
• Canada
25 Feb 10
I'm not sure how to answer this but I think that being loved by someone is more important. I think that loving that person comes from being loved by them. But I like having the mutual respect and caring, It's nice to have someone to care about as well as having someone care about you.
• China
25 Feb 10
I think these two are both important for me. But if I can only choose one, I will choose this one being loved by someone. Becaue I feel I am very happy when I am being loved by someone.
@freymind (1351)
• Philippines
2 Mar 10
Loving someone. That means that you can give yourself to that person completely with no exception. If you just want for others to just love you that's a good feeling but giving your heart to others is different and makes you a better person.
@avani26 (1518)
• India
2 Mar 10
To have a relationship that works loving someone is not enough. You have to love the other person the way they want to be loved just as you would want the person to love you the way you want to be loved. That is the way realtionship works and so will your love blossom. For me being loved by someone is more important.
• Philippines
24 Feb 10
for me, it would be both. it feels so good to love someone and even better to feel the love coming back from that person. if there's an imbalance on a relationship on giving and receiving back the love then that's the point where the relationship would start to crumble. if you don't feel loved then you start to loose the love that you have for that person. i mean if he treats you like trash would you still strongly feel that way for that person? you'd definitely start to look for someone else who'd reciprocate the love that you give. ^^
@jambi462 (4576)
• United States
24 Feb 10
Well they both kind of go hand in hand so I would say that they are equally important. I would choose loving someone because chances are that if you are being loving towards someone that they will most likely love you back. It takes love to receive love so I will continue to work on doing both.
• United States
24 Feb 10
to keep balance in life and to fully appreciate and understand true love one must have equal balance from both sides I do not think one can split the two in half. It is nice to love to have the experience and as nice to be loved but to do so alone leaves it incomplete
@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
23 Feb 10
I would prefer to choose being loved by someone for its easier to fall in love with the person who loves you too much than loving someone who has no hope of loving you.
• India
24 Feb 10
I would say both but if have to choose one then it would be being loved by someone. If I am being loved by someone may love the next person as well, but If other person does not love me and I love her would be difficult for me. If love is one sided it would not lost for longer time so it should be both way. Love and being loved is the best thing.
• India
23 Feb 10
both of these play role in life cuz if i choose who loves me and am not in love with that person u can't cheat yourself rite?? and coming to the other, loving someone is also the same.. i think it has to be like the one whom u love and the one who loves you needs to be the same person..