Do you kiss and tell?
@sanityeradicated (63)
United States
February 23, 2010 8:58am CST
This question came into my mind as my friend (lesbian) excitedly shared her making out experience with me. And she was claiming that their relationship is serious. For me, I think this is something that should be kept private. Something that only two people share. Another friend told me that this (kiss and tell or brag) is something that guys usually do.
I still have the hope that there is someone out there who has the principle of not sharing the information about the deed to other people.
Do you think I am being too hopeless romantic? Or are you with me in this?
4 responses
@lovelyn_medrano (3070)
• Philippines
23 Feb 10
I always believe that one should not kiss and tell. What happens inside the bedroom should be kept between the two of you only... sanityeradicated, I think a person who's doing that has some insecurity in himself... He or she doesn't respect the partner also.... Why share it and brag it to others if you love and respect the other person truly....
That is Definitely not a right thing to do! 
Just consider the feeling of the other person... how would you think she feels if this thing come to her knowledge? What do you think the people would think about this person after telling all to them????
Just consider the feeling of the other person... how would you think she feels if this thing come to her knowledge? What do you think the people would think about this person after telling all to them????
@sanityeradicated (63)
• United States
24 Feb 10
Exactly. As my friend was sharing her making out experience with her girlfriend, my perception of her and both of them really changed. I don't think I can look at them the say way again. :(
@lovelyn_medrano (3070)
• Philippines
24 Feb 10
Hearing their sexcapades somehow gives us (listeners) some awkward feelings... Well, I cannot talk about others but that is how I would definitely feel. That is something private and should not be broadcast at all.
@hera_alhambra (193)
• Philippines
24 Feb 10
i do not kiss and tell. i think that intimate moments with the one you love should just be shared by the both of you. keeping it that way makes the moment more special. i would definitely be upset if the guy i'm with would be telling his friends and in complete detail. if i knew then i would not think twice to break up with him. being in a serious relationship means that you've built trust in each other and that you wouldn't want to hurt the other person. i guess i'm just a private person when it comes to sharing intimate things.
@sanityeradicated (63)
• United States
24 Feb 10
Yes, this is what I mean too. It would be unfair for the other person, who poured all his/her emotions into the act only to be bragged about. And yes, same here, I would just break up with that kind of person. I totally expect some respect of my feminity.
@churchill1980 (764)
• Philippines
24 Feb 10
i am turned off with that kind of guy. maybe, he just lack respect to his partner or njust not serious with her. things like that are only shared by two people and what happen there should be left there, only for the two of them to share and not to let the whole world know about it. it is not the act of a real man. he just do it to prove something for himself.shame to him.
@universe2o6 (356)
• Brazil
23 Feb 10
i think people have the right to tell what happens in their lives. If it's a personal matter or not, that's up to them to decide, isnt that right? Everybody knows the possible consequences that can come from certain actions so if you choose to do certain things, you are going to have to ark with the consequences later.
@sanityeradicated (63)
• United States
23 Feb 10
I think you're right with that. Everyone's entitled to their own opinion. I tried to ask about my girl friends' comments about this, and they all agreed that when it comes to physical intimacy, one should not be sharing it to others. Especially with those "Man, she was begging for more." and "She was a tigress in bed!."
