love or lust at first sight?

Philippines
February 23, 2010 9:18am CST
fellas! would you sleep with a guy/girl on your first date? or will you wait and get to know the person first? do you believe it's love at first sight or lust at first sight?
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• Philippines
24 Feb 10
I don't believe in love at first sight. You are attracted to that person but you cannot say exactly that you love the person already. If someone, like a total stranger would tell me that he loves me after our first date or after a week, I would definitely avoid the person. Rather give him a hint that I am not interested in having a relationship with that person.
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• Philippines
23 Feb 10
Yes, I will get to know the person first and never allow myself to be in the kind of lust love. It is in my belief that it is better to secure yourself for the right person to come for this will give you many good outcome in life than in lust kind of love which really do not give you the real respect you wanted to have. Lust is something that cannot be treasured because this never molded true love but only human sensual desires and do fades easily. But with love, when love is real there is no space for lust. The desires are not only human sensual acts but the desires on the totality of the person being with. We wanted to be loved because we want to experience the beautiful things about love, a love that will linger for long and will never fade like a lust. Because as time goes by, Love is like a Gold that never fades..
• Philippines
23 Feb 10
absolutely not. I don't believe on love at first sight, maybe you'll feel attracted at someone during you're first meeting but i don't think that feeling of attraction is enough to end up in bed.
• Philippines
23 Feb 10
i also dont believe at love at first sight. you will only get attracted at first. while for others they might act like a kid and think "wow, a new toy" and when they get bored of it they throw or leave it.