my brother seemed to be a battered husband!

I admire the courage you have in protecting your brother. Especially in this crucial times you have seen that he is suffering from being a battered husband. You are mature enough that understand his situation and securing his rights. I understand that you cannot accept the fact your brother is in such condition. But, the problem is, your brother do not find ways to secure his rights and dignity. Maybe because he is in the relationship and he is blinded for the sake of love. He cannot think properly what is right and not for him. All he know is his love and affection from the girl that surely means, his eyes are open but his ears and mind for other things are closed already. I think you will find it hard to make him understand you though you are right in actions. From his actions, The emotional attachment of your brother to his partner is greater than you. That makes him weak and stay in that girl. If this girl is really bad in all, a big possibility that she can even break your relationship with your brother. The best advice I can suggest you right now is to, stay beside your brother. Do not make him choices until he has able to freely open with you all his true reasons, thoughts and feelings. You can remind him of his condition and express your concerns. Just wait for the right time for him to wake up for real. Let him initiate his feelings if he is fed up. Just continue telling him that you are there to lean on and understand him. He needs a confidant and if you make him secure in your bonding. Then, slowly he will understand you for his ears and mind are already ready to accept the reality of what his Live-in partner is doing. IF you forced him in choices for this will pull the trigger between you and his live-in partner. Show him your concerns, understanding, affection and attention even he do not mind it that well. Just never give up until the right time has come for him to listen to you. It is like a blindfolded person, no matter how you tell him the exact thing you see, he will never believe you because his eyes are closed, he can hear you and listen but his eyes are still closed to believe in you and his mind is floating like an air because he really did not believe until he has seen in his eyes the true things and realized that what you have seen is right.

ya u relax now your felling.i will you spirt n you try i fill you can finished with situation relax ok