IS IT RIGHT? Worth it? or worth less?

hey lucy... Keep fighting? Is that person worth fighting for? Is that person worth keeping? That would be the questions that you have to ask yourself when doing this. I never regretted that I stopped and fought for the one I love. Circumstances and time stopped us together. He just doesn't love me anymore. har har

I don't really understand why some people say that if you really love someone, you should set them free, I guess it only applies to those relationship that only one of the couple is loving the other one and no love in return, of course you have to set your partner free in that matter. But if its the case the you are in love with each other, then why set the person free? You should even fight for your love and do whatever and everything to make your relationship grow stronger and stronger everyday. And about your other question about true love comes our way, I say it does, BUT, it all depends on the decisions we make in our lives. Some people believe in destiny, well I don't. I believe that it's all because of the decisions we make, we can definitely change our future in just one decision, or even our lives. True love comes but it won't tell you that it's your true love, you have to feel it and experience it first.

..hi lucy.. first, I'd say fight for him if he's worth fighting for.. there's no use of fighting if he doesn't love you anyway.. why push yourself to him when he has no feelings for you anymore.. finding the right one is true.. you can't just wait and see.. that's the reality of life.. we can never get anything we want if we just wait and do nothing.. In my personal experience, there's no such thing as perfect relationship because there will always be misunderstandings and petty fights due to individual differences.. what is important is having an open mind and heart to accept the person as he is and love his weaknesses as well.. for us ladies, we usually set our standards or preferences and usually we are looking for somebody who is perfect.. we don't consider their weaknesses, we only consider their strengths and good points.. this is one reason why most ladies end up being single.. In a relationship, open communication is also needed.. both should have the willingness to share opinions and whatever problems they are undergoing.. committing mistakes is natural but committing mistakes with full intention is another thing.. as you've said, the flow of the relationship depends on how both partners handle each situation that come their way.. problems are always there to test how firm and how much trust is given to each other.. the relationship then should be founded with love, trust, and faithfulness.. added with sincerity and the other positive virtues.. problems are spices of life and it makes life challenging and thrilling..

hello lucygelato! For me, the decision to fight for someone or set him free is a case-to-case-basis. If, despite the differences that often leads to both of you being hurt, you find that you still love each other, then it is okay to fight for it. Being hurt is part of loving. It is always up to us to decide if the other person is truly worth the pain. But if he doesn't love you anymore and if the relationship is no longer healthy, maybe it's best to just set the other person free. Give each other time to reflect on things and allow each other to grow and mature. Who knows, given enough space to clear the cobwebs, you'd find out that you still love each other after all. :)

If you get to the stage where you feel you have to fight for a man then, I'm sorry, you've already lost him. It means that "he's just not that into you". You might fight and win him back but at what cost to your self-respect and how do you know he won't do the same thing again? I don't care if your 18 or 80, cut your losses and go find someone who loves you unconditionally because, trust me, he's out there but you'll never find him while you're tied up with someone who treats you as second best.