Separation of husband and wife?Will it affect the child emotionally?

Seperation of parents will have an effect on the kids for sure. I know how mad or tensed I will be when I see my parents fighting. No kid will prefer to live with step parents. They won't be very comfortable with step parents as they are comfotable with their own parents. It is good to avoid seperation especially if you have kids. It is a fact that people can't compramise on many things only becuase they have kids. But, please think about the future and emotions of kids before seperation.

I think this will definitely affect child emotionally because he might see others living happily with their mom as well as dad, he might realize this as soon as he starts understanding and will think that his parents are not co-operative so he living with either one of them. Later he may get curious to know his mother/father who has left him. He may also feel ignorant and annoying to the parent with whom he is staying currently. If people want to marry then they should take a oath that they will remain together for the lifetime.

Separation, annulment, or divorce definitely affects a child. We all think that children are children and they are incapable of feeling what adults feel, but that's not true. Sometimes a kid feels more depressed than his or her parents. I've seen many kids go through the process of their parents separation. A young three-year old may not be able to fully express his/her emotions but it greatly manifests in his/her behavior especially in school. In an effort for parents to understand their children better even seek the help of a development pediatrician or a child psychologist. I know of parents who stay in a painful relationship for their children, but I think that that shouldn't be the case. If there is no more way for them to patch things up and have already exhausted all the possibilities of making the marriage work they MUST separate because in the end it will be the kids who will suffer the most. By doing this, parents can only but provide a strong support system for their kid/s.

I believe it is even more harmful for a child to grow up in an environment where their parents are fighting all of the time and are visibly unhappy.

well my parents are separated indefinitely. i will have to find a way to get my father back here at home when we're already off to have our own lives so they could keep each other company when we're gone, and we won't have to worry about their whereabouts respectively when they grow old. but no really. for now i find that it's better that they're not together. i'd rather that they're living peacefully apart, than preying on each other under the same roof. i've become a bit closer to my dad now, but my mom's been overly melodramatic, as if i need to take sides. but there. by experience, i didn't really intend to over analyze the situation. i don't really think we intend to understand what's going on, we just grow out of it. but since i was the youngest and their only girl, it affected me in a way that i'm worried about them and how they'll be when they grow old, and we have a life to live. hence the first paragraph. i also find it hard to get into relationships, or believing in the concept of `forever`. it's like i've grown to be philophobic or something like it. but i hope someday i can resolve it somehow.

In the event of separation of husband and wife it is child who goes to emotional turmoil. Child's delicate mind finds it very difficult to accept the fact that he/she will not be able to meet / see / talk to one of his/her Parents.

Yes it would most definitely affect the child. With the parents split up the child would end up losing out on time with both parents because it would have to spend time with each parent instead of with them both. My parents have been divorced since I was born so it didn't really play that big of a role in my life because I've been used to being just raised by my mother. The longer a child has to bond with their parents though the harder the divorce will probably be on them.

The decision to separate in itself would have already created enough heat resulting in turmoil of the worst kind among kids. Surely there would be wordy warfares not to exclude physical assaults, etc. Where there should be a one big happy family atmosphere here we have a situation where the house would be divided certainly not a welcome thing for kids. Need I say more?

if the child is suffered by any of those two poeple then it is compulsory to get sepeated

while marriage a couple promises they will share each of the sorrows and happinessess but y do they forget after aa course of period , r they playing with each others life?

yes it affects the baby a lot and a couple should never got a thought of seperating frm one another, marriage is the one , excusing each other and sharing happies and sorrows with each other , but never a baby should suffer of these two people and they even dont have the right to hurt the baby at any cost

I think it is normally the children that really suffers, when their parents get a seperation. It can have a devastating affect on any child. Any child needs a stable an loving home to grow. TATA.

Definitely it would. However, it depends on the person whom the children grow up with how to help them cope up with this crisis that they were forced to face particularly it they are still too young to understand why it happened. I'm a single mom of three who brought up my kids alone. I made my kids understand that things like this are sometimes beyond our control and did not instill hate for their father but i saw how my youngest son had been envious of children whose father sends them off to and fetch them fetch them from school. I know that until now this negative feeling has not been healed as he refused to understand why a parent could just ignore his kid like what he feel in his case.

ya i think the children will feel bad and they will be affected emotionally if their parents are separated . i think the child will require the love of both the father and the mother and separation between them will have a lot of hard feelings in them ./ they affected in many ways and they will have some of longitivity in them . its surely affects the children .

I'ts always the childs lose when parents decided to seperate. No matter how hard we try to provide them their needs and how much love we can give to give them as a child it is always not enough. Im speaking in my own experience. No matter how hard my mom raise us siblings still at the back of our minds lies "what if's". What if our parents did not separate? will it be a lot happier? will it be a lot better. Are we not worth enough to be love since our father left us? Are we not enough to be keep and taken cared of? those were some of the questions I had when I was a child. And still now the pain is still there. Though how much I tried to think of a better things that had happen to me still the pain hides somewhere beyond my heart. don't know when it will heal or will it ever heal. Only time can tell...

Yes.. absolutely.. the child will really suffer emotionaly since he/she doesn't want to lose both of his/her parents. To avoid that kind of problem the parents must find a solution for their problem in their relationship. If the only solution is to separate from each other the parents should find a way to make the child understand the situation. It can help the child to adjust frm a very complicated situation which is created by his/her parents.

I think im in a good position to state my views about this. Being together or being separated always affects the children's emotions. If two couples stay married but fight like strangers everyday, exposing the children to domestic violence is just as bad scene as being separated. So when i have to choose for the lesser evil, i chose to break the marriage ties and hope to work hard so that my children will recover from it. And can i just say with pride, that my children have survived a broken marriage! And they came to realize they prefer to live peacefully and accept the fact that their parents can't live together harmoniously. Takes time, i just gave all my best to give them love and assure them , that its not their fault at all that their parents got separated. Children suffer from domestic violence. With separation,they have a better chance to survive and become emotionally stabled adults.

Yes, of course it will. Because it's not every time that the child's father/mother will be there. and every person needs their parents to teach them what's right and what's wrong and help them when needed! so the parents will be a missing factor in the child's life.

actually,the moment a child saw and witness the argument of their parent. the child emotions also might be affected, how much more if thier parent decided and agreed to separate?.. this decision made by thier parent may lead them to become confuse on thier surroundings, inconpetent of what they want to do. the parent has the responsibility to be the guardian and discipline to teach their children. if they got agreed to separated and have thier own lives, it will lost not only their relationship as a couple but thier oppurtunity to become a good parent and model and most of all the good future awaits for thier children.

of course it would affect the child emotionally because they would feel a great lose on their part. on the case of an infant, that child would more likely to be a stranger in their life for they will forever seek the love of a mother/father.