Have you ever laughed, amidst a bitter Cry?
By bodhisatya
@bodhisatya (2384)
India
February 24, 2010 8:22am CST
When the pain is so excruciating and every darn thing goes wrong , so much against us, that there ain't no other way than a heartfelt cry. Now when we finally restore to crying, had you ever laughed at the mockery that "YOU" the person who could take it all is now crying?
Things were so beautiful just moments ago, it seemed to me that I had everything which I asked for. it was as if the Gods were conspiring to make things work out on my way. Then suddenly with twist of events everything changed. I am alone in the midst of a crowd. And when I surrender myself to a bitter cry I feel like laughing on the ironic turn of events.
Have you ever felt that? Have you ever laughed in the middle of a bitter cry?
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5 responses
@sanityeradicated (63)
• United States
28 Feb 10
Yeah. First, it was all good. Then came a series of unfortunate events. And I jsut laughed due to the irony. *sigh.
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@bodhisatya (2384)
• India
28 Feb 10
Thats too much of emotions and events compiled in one short sentence. Would you like to share more? Nice name "sanityeradicated".
@bodhisatya (2384)
• India
2 Mar 10
Thats a lot of stress you have gone through, you know what freind, I don't know whether I should be saying this or nor, but I feel like so I am gonna tell you this,
sometimes we tend to take a lot of responsibilities and try to please others a lot. In the process of pleasing others we tend to get more and more dissatisfied. You must have set very high bar for yourself, and mainly it is to please somebody else. Be happy with what you are and maybe just I am assuming that things will fall into places.
maybe I am completely wrong and may sound as if I am blabbering. Pardon me if I have sound rude.
Have a great day,
Bodhi
@sanityeradicated (63)
• United States
28 Feb 10
Well, it was mostly due to school. LOL. We were asked to write a thesis with our group mates. I was the motivator of the group. We were having such a great time planning the task when suddenly we realized that deadline is getting nearer. As usual, I tried to motivate the group. I mean, we did out best but the teacher's expectations are so high. (btw, half of the class failed.) On top of that, my father left us because he had a huge fight with my mom. UGH. We tried to talk it out with the group, make a calendar of tasks to do when suddenly, my friend, due to stress was hyperventilating. DANG man, I cried it all out. Then I realized that me, the motivator, was crying. haha.
@bodhisatya (2384)
• India
26 Feb 10
It is nothing of being ashamed of. I have a friend who laughs out too loud, but we all love him as there are hardly any person left today who laughs out loud a real genuine laugh.
Way to go friend!
@ElicBxn (63643)
• United States
25 Feb 10
my former roommate was crying over something
Now, we had a cat, Briar, who HATED it when she cried and would come up and purr and rub against her to try and distract her.
Well, I can't remember why she was crying, but all of Briar's attempts weren't working to make her stop.
I guess, Briar decided I was to blame for making her cry and she turned, after all the bumping and purring didn't work, and GROWLED at me.
Well, that made BOTH of us laugh.
Didn't totally stop the crying, but at least she was also laughing...
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@bodhisatya (2384)
• India
25 Feb 10
Hi,
That is indeed an amazing story. I have never experienced something like that. It must have been a cute cat!
Thanks.
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@moonlitmagikchild (22181)
• United States
24 Feb 10
i have.. i have had one of those days where its like bad news on top of bad news on top of even MORE bad news and its like you start to cry but then you start thinking about who the heck has this kind of bad luck then starts to laugh too..
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@bodhisatya (2384)
• India
25 Feb 10
Hello friend,
Yes, it some happens some time that there are trouble on top of troubles. Then there isn't any way out and things seem to be so bleak.
Thank you so much for sharing!
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
7 Oct 10
Well, sometimes its unavoidable that we feel depressed for the day..but for the health its not a good side, i believe in Meditation which will balance our mind and helps to be normal at situations.
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@bodhisatya (2384)
• India
8 Oct 10
Hi besthope i thank you for the response, but thats what I not meant originally!
