SCARS...what do you have?,was it physical or emotional scar/s ?

hi jaiho! well i have a lots and lots of physical scars, reminds me of what happens only to make me smile but emotional scars :( i guess i don't have but i can totally understand how painful it could be :( when someone tends to break trust that doesn't come easy, anyways that small thing has been healed, it was only my silly anxious nature that i said something something to my very close friend and she was hurt. and then i came to know i was all wrong and i was so mean to her and i had to talk over it for long, i am the guilty one here but everything got well after an hour of conversation. i can feel how bad it could be to break trust and to get hurt, i am lucky i didn't have big issues lately, i tend to get emotional too, and emotional scars take lot more time to heal, i laugh seeing my physical scars but i guess no one can laugh at the emotional scars or in case sometimes to feel light we do laugh at our past :( .. all i know is that emotional scars i can't handle them, it would take a great deal of time for me to actually move on.. hmm.. anyways, have a nice day jaiho.

I have a big scar on my lower back. I definitely learned something from that. never play paper dance when you are near a mirror. LOL. I was I think around 10 that time, and we were playing with my cousins. My cousin tried to pick me up, but she lost her balance and we fell on their dresser. I broke the mirror, I had a big cut on my back, it was bleeding so bad, but then it stopped bleeding and after a few hours the wound closed, but the scar is really visible.

I would say that the biggest emotional scars I have are from the lack of substantial relationship with my family and a family member having been murdered. I'm not coping so well with either... Physically, I have a LOT of scars. I have three from surgery, a few from bike accidents and the like, but most of them were from getting scratched, primarily by a cat. I have a skin condition that causes this, worse so with cats because I'm allergic to them. Even the lightest scratch from a cat leaves a scar :/

I have a physical scar on my knee. It's the same color of my skin so it's hardly noticeable but when you take a look at it, you will see that it's quite big. This scar is a product of my recklessness during childhood. I used to play at our front yard, near the thorny rose bushes. One day, I actually fell on the bushes and got pricked by the thorns of the roses. The thorns left several wounds, some are light and one is deep enough to cause a big scar. Lesson learned: Stay away from the rose bushes. LOL

I have both, emotional scars and physical scars also, my physical scars are from a couple of surgeries that I had in my right tight, because I was born with hip displatia, which means that basically the femur is not well attached to the joint ( I am sure a doctor will explain this better), I had those surgeries many years ago but I still have the scars, fortunately I can walk like a normal person now. I also have emotional scars, everybody has been cheated, left, and all that, but the key is just to keep going, and be optimist in life, and don't let the life problems makes you cynical.

I had some scars in arm from when I had chicken pox for years and for reason when I reached adulthood they went away..go figure.

I think everybody has physical or emotional scars. As we move on in life, we come across many situations which leave their imprint on us…mentally or physically. I too have my share of physical scars…on the inside of my right shin bone…the skin has burnt marks from a bike accident…part of my lips and my chest has burn scars from hot oil, my left knee has a scar when I slipped and fell. Emotional scars are also there…my inner demons and nightmares which I can never seem to overcome.

i have lots of them in my face, from pimples. just like ybon, i don't want to be emotional this time. i have a lot of problems facing right now and i don't want to recall how i got emotional and physical scars that i have now.

Hi Sis, Well to share a physical scar I have one on my chin. I had a terrible accident on my motorcycle. Emotional scars, well I have lost the count.

speaking of scar i have mine that serves as my remembrance from my childhood. i used to be an active child. i can climb trees since we have lots of trees in the province, i can go biking at an early age, go mountain climbing with my cousin an etc. and so i got my big scar in my right legs from mountain climbing when one of the branches of bamboo cut into half and accidentally cut my legs. bamboo is actually sharp. and so i have a cut there lol but not that big just 1 inch but its very deep. i was unconscious that time and when i wake up, my cousin already brought me to the river to stop the bleeding.

Hi jaiho2009! You have a very emotional topic today, aren't you?! For me, physical scar is nothing compare to emotional scar. Like the literal scar that we got, it takes time for it to heal. Emotional scar and heartaches needs time to mend and sometimes it took years and years for you to actually recover from those hard experiences. Yes, I think every person learn from it. One way or another we experienced to be hurt that it made a mark on our hearts and makes us who we are right now.

For me I have visible scars it is hard to get it I feel scared it can have many blood after all.

Hi haiho, Yes, I do have one emotional scar caused by my special someone 2 years ago. I still used to have nightmares and tend to relieve the incident over and over, so it took a while to heal. I can't say I'm completely healed, but I am doing my best to stay positive and just trust him. Most of our wounds heal,leaving nothing but a scar. But I admit there were times although the cut's long gone, the pain still lingers in my memory...

I don't have any emotional scars BUT I do have some worm-like scars on my elbows. I got them when I was running from a person who had issues...mentally. It was a wet day and so I slipped and scraped my elbows clean...I'm still angry at that poltroon... GRRR :( MY BEAUTIFUL ARMS-RUINED!!! WAHHHHH. perhaps , I can get surgery in the future for it...

Actually I have scars both physically and emotionally. I have to admit that I was naughty in childhood and act like a follower of my cousin with relatively weaker body.There is a big scar on my leg which I got from falling into a pool scratched by rocks by dogging my cousin.He went down to the bottom of it to check the depth while I rolled into it. Shame~And I have another scar on my forehead too.You are right,again I got it by hitting my head on a small bicycle.From then on,I become more and more quiet. As to my emotional scar,most of them were caused by friends who now majority of them remain to be my friends till now.To be honest,I probably inherit my father's stubborn character and adopt my mother's aggressive temperament,a combination of both. Very often I stick to one aspect and never give up my stand,which irritate my friends a lot,but as soon as I realize my mistakes I would go to them to apologise. That is how I see reconciliation whereas some friends of mine handle conflicts in different ways. They wait for others to suurender first even though it is their fault. It is not enjoyable experience in the long run. So a lot of adjustments and adaptation are required to help people grow. I learn to encounter and get well with people of differentiated backgrounds and tempers which I believe will greatly help me for the rest of my life.I really appreciate all that experience. Take care!

Yes, emotional scars on broken heart that you only love the person but the reality he don't love me for what he feels. I have learn my lesson & apply to the reality of life that next time I've been in love, I must be wise to handle it.

I have a physical scar on my stomach, a vertical one. It's almost 13cm long and I had it when I did a surgery for ovarian cyst 5 years ago. I always feel sad about it cos I couldn't wear clothes and low cut jeans that reveals my stomach.