Do you love your wife?

@emine08 (1551)
Indonesia
February 25, 2010 5:37am CST
hello mylotters, I have a reason why I post the discusion like this. I have a cousin. She have got married for 4 years. Her husband always hit her if they were arguing. But after that her husband ask apologize and say that he love her wife (my cousin). I just confused, it is one way to show love to a wife or what. Do you have a wife? do you love your wife from your beneath heart? just give your opinion here. I am glad to your participation.
6 responses
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
28 Feb 10
iam unmarried.i think the man like that is not gentle man.i never think that if we want teach our wife, we must to hit our wife.wife can understand if we love her , by saw our smile, our attention, and our words.
@emine08 (1551)
• Indonesia
28 Feb 10
I hope you love your future wife as your soulmate. thanks for sharing here.
@Alivia (47)
• India
26 Feb 10
I think her husband is not a normal person .may be a psycho patient needs treatment.if he really loves her he cannot hit her wife whenever arguing among themselves.
@emine08 (1551)
• Indonesia
26 Feb 10
do you think her husband is not normal? well I will ask my cousin first about that.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
1 Apr 10
a husband who frequently beat his wife was not a good husband. if a husband loves his wife he would not hit his wife. someone who loves his wife will always make her happy not to make suffer. an abusive husband who can not be said to love his wife. I really hate it with a husband like that.
@emediloy (701)
• Indonesia
25 Feb 10
i don't think it's an expression of love. it's a violence, domestic violence. a good husband wouldn't treat his wife like that. men should respect a woman and vice versa. sometimes a married couple have an arguing and its normal. but its not true if a husband hurt his wife physically.
@emine08 (1551)
• Indonesia
26 Feb 10
yup I agree to both of you. I have said to her that it is not a matter of loving or not but it is trully domestic violence. but she won't hear me.
@cycomz (72)
• Philippines
25 Feb 10
The husband may not be the PERFECT person for her, but he is her husband. She needs to fit into that IMPERFECTION..sometimes, it's not all about the man who hits..sometimes, it's the person who pushed him to hit..Man, by nature, feels he is in authority. Woman, by nature, can't stop talking back.. I don't hit my wife..but usually the woman gets hit when she answers back to her husband.. It takes two to tango..If the husband is mad, the wife must shut..Man hates nagging wife...
@emine08 (1551)
• Indonesia
26 Feb 10
I agree with you. he is not a perfect person for my cousin.
@Masihi (4413)
• Canada
25 Feb 10
If he loved his wife he would not hit her - in fact he would recognise his anger issues and seek help. Not every marriage is perfect but sometimes things simply cross the line.
@emine08 (1551)
• Indonesia
26 Feb 10
I agree with you...