love for our partner

@humairaku (2038)
Indonesia
February 25, 2010 9:09am CST
Hi mylotters! How much do you love your partner? actually I love my man today. but sometimes I really hate him when he did something bad or else. but then I could forgive him and I will love him again. In the other words, my love to my partner is up and down. What about you, how much do you love your partner today? and how do you keep your love to your partner? Thanks for giving response. Happy mylotting!
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8 responses
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
25 Feb 10
hai humaira,it`s nice question but i dont know how to answer.hehe. because untill now iam still bachelor. but i think if we obey our religion rules, a man or woman who had married had promise in their God that they love each other, respect each other, help each other and so on
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@gunagohan (3414)
• India
25 Feb 10
i got u..... u have to be very careful, when u are responding to others discussions, u have to be honest and truthful.. i have been responding to ur discussion about a sms that ur girl friend has sent to you and now u are telling that here u dont have a girl friend.. whats all about this? Where is the spirit?
@gunagohan (3414)
• India
26 Feb 10
have a look at the discussion ... it was clearly said the love for ur partner... ur girl friend is ur partner in this case and it was asked about the love towards it.. I'm sorry, if im wrong...
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
26 Feb 10
guna, i never lie. in my other responds i write that iam confuse about the sms meaning, here i write that iam still bachelor and unmarried. unmarried is means i never married even iam closely to girl. i think it`s clear different bachelor, unmarried and married.
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@myramae19 (667)
• Philippines
25 Feb 10
Hi huma I love my partner next to God, he's a good man. But,just like you sometimes I hate him, I hate him for being over protected, emotional, sometimes selfish But, realizing the fact that he's doing all of it for my sake..makes me love him much. As long as he love me,I do as well.
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@humairaku (2038)
• Indonesia
25 Feb 10
I think your partner has some similarities with my man. he's so over protected. he even never gives me permit to go out of the town. If I insist to go, he gave me two options: he accompanies me or I cancel my plan. he prefers to give me expensive gift to gives me permit. I really hate this at the beginning but when some of my friends told me that he do this because he really loves me, I could accept his attitude finally. now, I love him more than before.
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@gunagohan (3414)
• India
25 Feb 10
well, i don't have a girl friend ....i'm still single and i'm very young to be in relationship, because, i'm 21 years old... but, when i get into relationship, i may be a perfect lover without any downs...
@gunagohan (3414)
• India
25 Feb 10
seriously, i don't know how a girl will behave to me and how it will be if i have a girl friend , i have been thinking about this...
@humairaku (2038)
• Indonesia
25 Feb 10
wow..two thumbs up for your confidence that you can be a perfect lover for your girlfriend someday. :) how can you be so sure that you can be a perfect lover for your girlfriend?
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@humairaku (2038)
• Indonesia
26 Feb 10
so, you're curios on it, right? why don't you try to have a relationship with a girl? come on, you're 21 now, and it's time to make a date. you're mature enough I think. then you'll find out how you'll treat your girl and vice versa. so, happy hunting. LOL.
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• India
25 Feb 10
Hi friend!! Well love is love what so ever conditions are... Ya, our feelings are more stronger sometime and sometime less. I love my girl friend a lot even she gets crazy so many times and hurts me a lot as well but I know that it is not her hobby to hurt me and her heart and soul are still so pure for me only and these are just conditions which are making her react this way so I don't give up any step with her and I am always with her what so ever conditions are. I don't think that if love is true then there can be any problems...yes there are ups and downs in every one's life...after all we are human being but we should be more understanding towards our partner and should be with them on every step of life whether it is happiness. Try to understand that why they did anything wrong... what were circumstances and what were their intension in doing that.. I am sure if your lover is true than their intension will be somewhat to make you happy may be that will go bad in some way but their intension would not be really to do any thing wrong and just wanted to see you happy but everything is not in our hands and sometimes it gets into wrong sense... I agree one can make mistakes but try to understand why all that happened... if you say that they made such a mistake that they made links with other girl then think why they did so... are you not able to love them so much as much they need it or he needs more attention from you... one can't forgive every time and for every mistake but still LOVE is real matter where we can't cheat each other if love is TRUE LOVE.... Have a nice time!!
@humairaku (2038)
• Indonesia
25 Feb 10
ya, you're right. it is impossible if we hope that our love life won't find any obstacles. but because we find some obstacles we try to solve the problem together. from that moment, we can share our thoughts. and from that process, finally we know what our partner wants and then we could understand each other. thanks for sharing the tips how to keep love to our partner, mr..good luck..
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@nophie (2336)
• Indonesia
25 Feb 10
well, now i dont have partner, so i can't share what i feel now. but my trully partner is my son, my love for him always increase. :-D
@humairaku (2038)
• Indonesia
25 Feb 10
hi, nophie! love is universal, right? it's not only for loving couple but also for mom and her children or people for others. so, it's ok if you want to share your loving feeling to your son. he must be a wonderful boy, right?
@nophie (2336)
• Indonesia
25 Feb 10
yes, he's my life. i'm really touching when i would go to office, and he didnt permit me. so i said to him "honey, i'm going to office to look for some money, for buying milk for you, play, etc" and what he answered? he walked to his play box and took imitate money and gave to me. he said "mommy didnt have to work, i give you this money. now lay down with me.' :-(( Oh My GOD, he's so sweet. i cry in my heart.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
25 Feb 10
nphie,is it forbidden to cry in a night. my parents say "pamali". LOL
• India
26 Feb 10
I am unmarried. I have love with a woman. She is my hearties lover. But she doesn't accept it that she loves me also. On Valentines day I gave her a present. She was so happy. She didn't control herself. She say me I love You. The three worlds becomes my life. I lover her very much. I know her with her deep heart. I can do everything for her. But sometimes she also confused. That is my big problems. What I should have to do....can you help me.
@humairaku (2038)
• Indonesia
27 Feb 10
hi, satishyadav! great for your new relationship. hope it will last forever. do you know why your girl is confused bout her feeling to you? if you don't know, it's better for you to ask her first. from her answer, you'll have any ideas to solve her problems. and be patient with her. maybe she needs sometimes to get the answer of your question. good luck, buddy. hope you can fix your relation and life happily ever after. ^_^
@Raniaa (66)
26 Feb 10
y feeling for couples sometimes go up and down.. and if he made a mistake with the easy sometimes we forgive him. but we should be able to advise him because it show the love our.yeah still love for my patner... and i always keep my relationship with communication and respect for our patners. yeah i hope you get what you expect couples
@humairaku (2038)
• Indonesia
27 Feb 10
just like today, raniaa. I have a quarrel over my husband. it caused I think he couldn't give me support when I need it. and for me it's really disappointing. but, still I love him and try to understand why he didn't support me at that time. the same wish for you, hope you get a good man in your life. or you did? :)
@Raniaa (66)
27 Feb 10
y in a state he probably busy or have a problem.y do we fell we are disappoited.but giving attention and encouragement and was always there for him then he will be so well againtst we.i hoping he'll always be there for you.