Should I get mad when he say i can give you one chance to betray me

What he means maybe, he can forgive you once. You don't have to get mad, maybe this is just a reminder from him.

I would never forgive my partner if he betrayed me coz I love him and will be loyal to him and my partner would do the same but if your partner says that it was ok that you betrayed him then one he has to be a SAINT or a DEVIL and that is for you to decide coz none of us would know your partner.

I can see what he is saying. If you betray him once he can forgive, but after that he can't. LIke there is one chance to work things out if that happens but thats it. To me that says love because he is willing to try and work it out if there was a betrayal.

that sounds weird.almost sounds like asking for an excuse to do it themselves..if you love the person,you wouldn't do it in the first place.

Sounds like he or she thinks or knows you might decide to wander, so he's letting you know your not getting another chance if he catches more than once. Actually, either he sounds insecure, or he's probably gonna do something himself and knows he'll need another chance.

if my boyfriend will tell the same words right through my face, i will really slap him. i will be very insulted if he tells me those words. it's as if i was born to be promiscuous. i'm not comfortable with it.

f someone felt they had to say this to me it would tell me a number of things. First they do not really know you. They are projecting the possibility of you betraying them based on a past experience they had. They may like you, they no doubt lust after you, but they do not yet trust you. It would be clear there would not be love, or trust, involved here. It takes time to build trust and a good relationship. And to put conditions on a relationship at the very beginning shows a real lack of trust. This would be a big red flag for me and I would know that a lot more time need go by before I could then get serious about this person. For a relationship to succeed, trust is an absolute must. Would it be considered naive to assume they would be faithful? No. We all have a right to expect this when we are in a serious and loving relationship. It is always possible it will happen but that is not your fault. Your responsibility is to be trustworthy and therefore worthy of trust.

true love dosen't want to betray the other. if the person did already betray you and is asking forgiveness; then it is up to you what you should or should not do. i don't think betrayal is good in a real love relationship between two people.

if its love then you wouldn't want to hurt the person you love.when you betray that person then it would be difficult to trust him/her again. when you love someone, you don't play games or tricks with each other, you'd want to make that person happy. ^^

I have also experienced such case,isaid to my boyfriend i can give him one chance to betray me,but the premise is not a betrayal of his own voluntary or active.I love him, so i'd like to give him a chance of rehabilitation.If your lover said he or she can give you a chance to betray,you should be happy rather than mad!