Relationships......
By busybee10
@busybee10 (3186)
India
February 26, 2010 11:19am CST
These days relationships are very sensitive and unpredictable in life how are you managing the present relationships.
Please share your thoughts....
7 responses
@divineathena (1746)
• United States
27 Feb 10
I like managing relationships by talking out. Instead of being depressed about an issue in mind, it is better to bring it into light. It seems to always work for me and my boyfriend. But I cannot say the same for my parents and older sister. In my family everyone is quite stubborn and thus it is hard to talk to them about any issue. Talking to them never seem to work. They just start screaming and yelling. So I just keep it inside me which later makes me cold towards them.
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
28 Feb 10
Managing a relationship is really a skilled job - it is not easy at all. I know how much tactfully we have to maintain this.
There are few things in life which only we can solve and parents cannot be blamed for this.It is we who maintain relationship depending upon our thoughts and hence parents cannot understand this - so it is we who have to decide the end .
Any how move cleverly use your skills and also your commonsense to have a good and binding relationship with good people. Keep bad people away.
There is a saying in our place Purchase good friends by paying and leave bad friends by paying back.
@vince06 (98)
• Philippines
27 Feb 10
i have this strong and happy 5 yrs relationship with my GF..and im always praying that in the end we will be together..i think we made it to this long because we have a give and take relationship, we understand each other, i respect her and i see to eat that she is always happy and i comfort her if she has a problem and she is also doing that to me..and i think the main reason to make your relationship strong is LOVE..if you and your partner will love each other then there is no reason for your relationship to fail..because i believe in the saying that love counquers all..and the best thing that me and my GF has is that she is my bestfriend and im her bestfriend too..
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
28 Feb 10
Friend - vince06, I am really happy to note your healthy relationship of you both. This is the real thing which is needed. How much both of you might have sacrificed to have such a good relationship for the past 5 years.
I wish you 5 times more success in all your undertakings and please convey my good wishes to your GF.
To get a best friend in life is the richest of everything in this world wherein you can share the thoughts which come from the bottom of your heart.Only the person nearer to you can understand - whom we call a best friend.
@myramae19 (667)
• Philippines
26 Feb 10
Love your partner as you love yourself
Respect each other, respect each other decisions..And the most important thing is TRUST
If you trust each other there is always love and it will continue to grow.
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
28 Feb 10
What you told is right - Love is something which takes birth from the bottom of one's heart and it should be regarded and respected. Once this is done there will be a good understanding between both.
Yes, trust also plays an important role in the game.
@achilles2010 (3051)
• India
26 Feb 10
In every relationship, it is important that the jagged edges in characters perfectly match each other. Differences in opinion might cause a friction between these rough and tough edges in characters. This might fray the relationship. Here are few things if taken care of then the relationship will have a smooth sailing.
1) Do not take each other for granted. Know the tolerance limit of each other. It is all right to joke, but never joke on the cost of the other.
2) Too much familiarity breeds contempt. Do not try to be too familiar so that you lose respect for each other. Keep a respectable distance and maintain it.
3) Give space to each other. Do not breathe over their neck. Respect others privacy.
4) Absence makes heart go fonder. Love increases when you tend to miss the other. Let the other feel your absence occasionally. You would know how much you miss each other.
5) Count your small blessings and learn to appreciate from time to time what the other does for you.
6) Small tiffs in friendship are inevitable. Whenever you have a tiff, do not allow it to stretch until next day. Patch up before you go to sleep. If you find at some point other person is intolerable, then walk away. Changing the environment would help. After you return, you will find you are no longer angry.
7) Do not discuss the points on which you both disagree.
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
28 Feb 10
Dear achilles2010 - you have a very transparent approach towards good relationship. These are the facts which one must acquire and also follow so as to have a good and encouraging relationship.
Relationship is a balance of two hearts - a total understanding.
I really appreciate your refined thoughts towards good relationship.,
@mfernandezus (76)
• Philippines
26 Feb 10
relationship is a two way road - should and always be a give and take process, and every decisions made should always be a win-win for both. it is a way of getting to know more the other person. before you get into a relationship, you should know more yourself that you would be able to share it to the other - a relationship is a way of letting others be on your shoes - it fails when one of them only knows his/her needs, when he/she think only of his/herself.
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
28 Feb 10
You are right - a right understanding between two makes a binding between both and there should be always encouraging on both sides - this paves a good path for further movements. Trying to understand the minds of each also makes more strong in relationship. This is the prime thing between two of them. And, at times a little bit of excuses for small mistakes also makes a good binding between bot of them.
@common_man (1799)
• India
26 Feb 10
my prescription for maintaining relationship is very simple.
1. Love your partner and care for him/her
2. Have faith in your Partner and be loyel to him/her
3. Understand each other and be ready and try to make adjustments whernever required
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
28 Feb 10
Thanks for your kind reply - your thoughts are transparent and have a +ve approach towards the term relationship. This is a healthy way of maintaining a good and strong relationship.One should get adopted to these and surely a binding in relationship gets created which lasts for a longer period.
I feel this is the result of a good experience only.
@phungminhthu (176)
• Singapore
12 Mar 10
To remain a relationship,i think we should:
Show the person we love that we always care for them so much,make them feel that they are being loved!
Respect them,trust them
And more than that,what make a relationship last long is "Love",if you still feel the love in your relationship,you still can remain it but once the love's gone,no matter how hard you try,you can't keep it anymore...
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