I want to get married, but I have no money, no job, can I marry?
@satishyadav21 (232)
India
February 27, 2010 3:16am CST
Hi, friends I am graduate person. I have no money, no job, can I marry? I am 24 years old. I want to a life partner. But I have no job, no money, If you were me, what would you choose. Please mail me (kumarparveenjangra@gmail.com). I am waiting for your comment.
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8 responses
@binagupta (627)
• India
27 Feb 10
i dont think so you should marry right now because you have no job nothing, it will be best for you if you get the job and settled down and then get a happy life so, that you will not get complains from your wife/husband.
@satishyadav21 (232)
• India
27 Feb 10
I am very hardworking. My parents have money but this is nothing for me. I want to give take expense with my own income. But everywhere Job far away from me. What I should do.....Please...
@binagupta (627)
• India
27 Feb 10
i dont think the whole life you can depend on your parents money, so its a plus point that you are hard working person then just go away find a good job and settle down
@joebrpt84 (85)
• Malaysia
27 Feb 10
well what can i say.. if you are a girl then i would say okay... if ur a man then that is problem
@satishyadav21 (232)
• India
27 Feb 10
If I am girl then I haven't any problem. But I have. Is my tension is right or wrong...
@Rallon (441)
• United States
27 Feb 10
Yeah, I'm in the same boat here! Wow, the economy is rough right now. I hope you find someone to love, but just remember not to rush into anything for just the sake of being with somebody. Money means nothing. As the saying goes, all you need is love! But if you don't have that, all the money in the world won't mean a thing. I hope one day to find someone to settle down with, but I'm taking my time as I don't want to marry someone only to find out they are not really the one. So if you find someone that you truly love, don't worry about money. Instead, concern yourself with what kind of person they are, and if you really are meant to be with each other!
@thunderbala (748)
• India
27 Feb 10
I don think you can marry for this type of situation.. try to have a good job and then marry.. that would tell the society about how you are and you can be proud of yourself.. best of luck..
@siliguri (4241)
• India
27 Feb 10
Not it is not good to do marry without having a good job..I think u should carry on your search for a job and your age is also not so high If you did it then you will face lot of problem in your life and your married life become miserable so don't ever think about to marry..
@satishyadav21 (232)
• India
27 Feb 10
Some times I think that Why I will be here I should die. I am waiting a lot for my partner. I am hardworking. But result not found. I am in a big problem....
@srjac0902 (1169)
• Italy
27 Feb 10
In marriage the couples are equal partners to face life and shoulder responsibility. Bu in practice Male has the major share in bearing the responsibility for economic safety. If one wants to get married at least there is some set of social order. It depends who is your partner? If your partner assures that unemployment , not having money - these are not the issues but if two persons can live with mutual genuine love and stand for each other then marriage is O.K. If the partner should enter into conflict because of not having the job or money then better not to burn one's own fingers through his own hand. It is always better that one assures his/her safety and survival then lean to the sentiments. Marriage in certain condition need to ponder well what will be the future? Constructing a house without a blueprint is not safe.
@common_man (1799)
• India
27 Feb 10
Friend, marriage involves lot of responsibilities, including financial one. Without money and without job it will be difficult to fulfill those responsibilities. Then there are chances of getting relationship sour. Its better to get married after having a reasonably good job.