how do i express myself without hurting him??????
By devmitra
@devmitra (274)
India
February 27, 2010 6:55am CST
Hello to all of you guys and gals around!Feels like I just can't get a better place to get suggestions,when Iam in trouble!Well,recently I had been dating a guy,younger to me by three years, for the last thirty days and I found that he is not serious about his life,career and future.On one hand,he loves me immensely,does whatever I say to him,but the change in him is temporary.He comes back to square one after a few days.I have already been losing interest to stay in the relationship.I haven't said him a 'yes'yet and I don't want to say him a 'yes'.At the same time,I don't want to hurt him by saying a 'no'.Iam not trying to sound silly,but the ssituation is getting worser.Iam not happy staying in the relationship,the guy says to me that he can't live without me,can't behave like normal friends with me and will spoil himself or commit suicide if he doesn't find me in his life.What do I do???HOW DO I EXPRESS MYSELF,WITHOUT HURTING HIM????Please do suggest.
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@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
28 Feb 10
You have to be honest with him that you want to be alone.. and you have to be firm, and not care about hurting his feelings. I wish you luck in this.. you have to think about yourself and if you feel worried, you should get away as fast as possible..
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