Girl on girl crime - It's just gotta stop!

February 27, 2010 7:18am CST
I am a 24 year old female and i seem to get on a lot better with men then with women as friends. I am very girlie and feminine, so it isn't that. I do have plenty of girlfriends, but every now and then i just tune them out. WHY? Women like to B****, and it's not nessasary. All it shows to people (particulary men) is that women are insecure, need valiation and like to b**** about others to make themselves feel better. I try and remain a non-b****. Every now and then i will banter in a playful way about things, but truly i am confident in myself not to pull people down. It so strange i will be around guy friends, then another girl will could come into the situation and change the whole vibe, by adding catty remarks and all kinds. Don't get me wrong, i love you girls to bits, but we just need stop competeing like lionesses. Lets all put our claws away!
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Feb 10
renaissance2010 Some women maybe like to bit@h but most do not, at least the women friends I have do not complain all the time.Most women I know in this era of 2010 are not insecure as they hold down full time jobs and do not need a man to make them whole, they just marry when they fall in love. Most are married and working.So maybe you need to pick your friends more wisely.
27 Feb 10
I liked everything you said, but why the dunce caps?- that's not nice or accurate. I am 24 years old so perhaps those of my era/age group are different, and yes maybe it is the company I keep. I hope to make friends with the type of women you must of come across in your lifetime. I apprieciate your comments and respect them, but i didn't think the dunce caps were needed.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
1 Mar 10
I'm sure there are people like that, but I haven't really run into that with my own friends. Then again, I'm a really hard person to get to know...
@ifa225 (14460)
• Indonesia
27 Feb 10
Yeah, sometimes girl just freak out to compete. they like to be man's women, they would do anything to gain it. even if the man has already have a partner..