What did you mean by a "good husband/wife" ????
By emdee
@mdvarghese (1789)
Bangalore, India
February 27, 2010 11:51am CST
We all used to say that "I wanted to be a good wife/husband" . Some will say " she is a good wife and she got a good husband" What is the criteria of judging this "goodness". Are you a good wife/husband ? You can share here about the personal question and it will be kept as confidential for ever.
3 responses
@Gunbazca (44)
• Indonesia
27 Feb 10
Depends on how one will perceive 'good', i guess. A wife who cooks and takes care of the tykes may be considered good by parents... while on the other end of the spectrum, one might say that a wife that earns money for her stay-at-home husband is good.
For me, i think i lean more to the classical role of wives... to take care of the house while i (as a husband) go out and fight the world for livelihood.
@mdvarghese (1789)
• Bangalore, India
3 Mar 10
Hi...Gunbazca
Thank you for your response. So the good wife in your imagination is who is taking care of the house - means taking care of the parents, elders, children and guests if any- As you said this is the classical role of wives.
Once again thank you for your response and happy mylotting !!!!!
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
12 Aug 10
Well i feel perseverance is greatest quality of a good women as a wife. She can take more care of her husband and adjust and love more than any in this world!!
@vathsala30 (3732)
• India
8 Mar 10
Hi varghese
I think a better spouse is the one who will understand the feelings of the spouse and respect it. They should be helpful to each other and must reciprocate each others love and respect and share each others high and low and cooperate accordingly
