Why do women want to change man?

India
February 27, 2010 1:01pm CST
i cant find the answer for this question . i have seen many men who have completely changed after their marriage . if i ask them why mostly their answer will be "wife" changed it . why do woman always change men ?
7 responses
@cloud31 (5808)
28 Feb 10
They might get married for unfavorable reason or impossible to stay together for good,different reasons why partner changing partners, they might really have to part because of various reasons,or may not even their way but the situation force them of doing so,getting married is not actually the best way to keep your loved ones,you can keep somebody without the bow of marriage,sometimes people thinks that marriage is the best action and decisions for keeping someone they love,and at the end they will realize,its not the best way to do..If one person had considered some important matters before decision had been made,it will make the best way to keep your man/woman than regretting after marriage. Happy Lotting!
• United States
27 Feb 10
Some men really don't know who they are until they meet the "one". You cannnot change someone who doesn't want to so obviously the man sees what the women says is most of the time right. Or for example if the man is doing something that the woman doesn't like and she says she will leave him and he realizes that she is more important than whatever it may be then that is a change as well. Change isn't always bad.
@jugsjugs (12967)
27 Feb 10
I think that when people get married to a person they are getting married to them for the person they are not a person that they want to change.I think there are both men and women out there that change as soon as they get married aswell as both try to change the other person.I married my husband and since we have both got older aswell as having children i find that we have both changed.
@dreamnishu (1247)
• China
27 Feb 10
Women don't like any bad habits. That's why they change there husband as there husband has some bad habits. all women want there husband will be pure as they want the best husband in this world. Sometime husband can change there wife if they find out any bad habits of there wife.
• India
27 Feb 10
Man before his marriage he resides with the parents and other members of the family.Then he is one among them doesn't have his own individuality and there is no body who can sympathize, sharing his inner feelings. Once he is married he gets his life partner who share all his concerns and also takes care of him. She understands his requirements and his likes and dislikes and behaves as if she is only the person in his world of things who cares for him. Slowly both become one soul with two bodies and meanwhile children spring up and the bond between the wife and the husband deepens. Thats how a man changes after a marriage and lives his own privacy life with his wife and children.
@phoenix8606 (4942)
27 Feb 10
Hi! well, not all the women try to change their men, but many of them are. And I think they do this, because they think if they can change them, it will mean that they are stronger and with greater will or just that they want to fit some complexes :)
• Philippines
27 Feb 10
Maybe the wife has a lot of demands and since the man cannot satisfy all of these demands or rules, the man decides to change because who can swim a river if it is swiftly flowing with turbulent waters all around. Go with the flow? How?