The biggest secret...

@alinka (184)
Greece
February 27, 2010 4:09pm CST
I was wondering myself what is my biggest secret and realized that actually the biggest secret I know is not mine.I know alot of secrets from alot of different persons some of them are even connected between somehow ,but never,in any kind of circumstances revealed any of these secrets.This was happening to me very often when i was in high school.The secret i knew ,i kept it for 6years and never revealed it because it wasnt my responsibility to do it.As an idea ,it was about a friend of mine that she was adopted and i knew it from her younger sister.She found out from her sister 3years ago and she wasn't very happy with this "update" of her life. What is the reason that would motivate you to tell yours or anybody's else secret?Can you keep a secret even if its a negative one?And if you "hold" a secret how long its been since you are the "holder"?
3 responses
@flikkenni (537)
• Indonesia
28 Feb 10
Everyone has secret on their own, we have to appreciate their secret no matter what. If someone want to tell you their secret, you have to make sure that you can keep those secret. If you can't keep it tell them not to reveal their secret to you. If anyone trust me their secret I have to keep it and I won't tell it to anyone. I will keep it as long as I can and as long as I need to keep it. There is a time when you have to tell someone's secret. If there is something important that you need to reveal someone's secret then you have to tell it
@savypat (20216)
• United States
28 Feb 10
This has always been a bother to me, if I know a secret you have dropped it down a deep well and I will not bring it to life except in case of physical harm. Many times I have kept aa secret only to have the friend come back when faced with the consequences of the discovered secret and say "well Pat knew all along" as if it was my fault it was kept secret. I just never understood the rules, I guess.
@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
27 Feb 10
Yes I can keep secrets & never revealed it to anybody else. One thing serious is my boyfriend before he never knew his father since birth & I am the one who knows it I never sy a damn word to him about it when his mother told her the truth then it makes his world turn upside down all I did is just to comfort him. My close friends also tod me secrets that not even my husband knew about it. Its just a matter of trust so that your friend will know that you can keep their secrets.