how to forget someone who is in your deep heart
By abhi3pathi
@abhi3pathi (6)
February 27, 2010 4:13pm CST
well i think its not easy to forget someone whom u love but may be this will work what i have tried for myself and some agian nearly normal .
1.simply keep busy urself as u could bcoz when u r alone u will surely think of her.
2.do let her thoughts crammed in ur mind.i mean when ur mind start keep thinking about her just forcely divert it whether u have to do it 60 times in a hour in starting its not easy but u will be habitat very soon.
3.remember more u think about ur past ,what she think about me,why she said no,why this happen.more u hurt urself.just accept that it happened and dont think why.bcoz as the no. of why increases ur heart will feal more pain and burn more.
4.always remember that main problem was not her.main problem is ur mind.because it always reminds u that u lost her.so remember sorrow is in ur mind not in ur life.always keep telling this fact to ur mind that if u dont feel that then problem is solved.
5.whenever she meets try to behave normally.when she goes that's it dont think more.just involve urself in any other activity. don't think what she said i should nit say that etc.just finish the chapter.
6.simply dont impose her on urself.
7.if u can date with another one.it also helps.
U KNOW ITS BIG ISSUE BY WHICH WE MOST OF US HAVE TO PASS SOMEHOW SOMEDAY.
JUST SHARE UR THOUGHTS HERE MAY BE IT WILL COOL SOMEONE'S BURNING HEART
4 responses
@hotsht2 (71)
• United States
2 Mar 10
i agree with you. all you have to do is keep you mind busy, and try to not have this girl cross your mind at all. if you no it is over for sure and completely ended and there is no turning back, you must get rid of anything and everything that reminds you of this one special girl you love. just keep youself busy, but i dont think you should go out and date so fast right away, because if you usta go to the movies all the time and you go to the movies with this other person now, its more likely that you will think of her instead of the person that you are now going with. there needs to be some kind of mourning period until you get back out there and think that you are ready and strong enough to try and love again. god has a plan for everyone, if it didnt work out, there is a reason why. best of luck to all.
@abhi3pathi (6)
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2 Mar 10
thanks for ur response.i said to go out with someone bcoz i thought it will help to overcome from her memories and involvement of mind with something else.but ur view is also correct that we can not immediately date with someone else.ya u are right but may be if u do forcely may be it will help someone in some extent depends upon indivisual personality.but thanks for being here
@jennyjenny1 (66)
• China
28 Feb 10
if i need to forget someone i will put myself in a busy work. i will work again and agian, because if i do that, i have no more time to think her. for you, you can also give yourself a chance to do what you want to do, give you a space to think about what is the most important in your life. i consider that in our life, there are a lot of people who we love so much, such as our parents, brother as well as our friends. maybe her hurts you so much, maybe her means the whole of your life, maybe you love her more than anything else. but maybe it is a chance which she gives you to meet more girls who are better than her. to forget her maybe you can get a ture love
@abhi3pathi (6)
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28 Feb 10
hi jenny.you r right .more we keep busy less chance to remember her.what i like most that we have a more close world which is full of emotions that is our family we shold spend more time with them.thanks for ur thoughts
@simonelee (2715)
• China
8 Mar 10
Hello there. When i was heart broken what i did was I focus on something that makes me productive, become more busy and if not I spend most of my time with friends, family or at the mall. Anything that will eat my time. I know all these things are not enough to forget someone that makes you smile. There are times that all those efforts are useless and i feel so alone and still in pain. What i did was i went to the church, pray with all my heart and pour all the pain inside me. I guess nothing is more powerful than prayers. Now, God gave me someone that makes me smile everyday and a reason to take care of my self.
happy lotting.
@homeshoppers (6166)
• Philippines
8 Mar 10
i guess the best one is to enter another relationship again and be busy with that person than keep on thinking with your ex. even if your busy with your work on ce you got home you still cant help but think about your ex. so try to find new one so that someone can replace her in your heart. i know it sounds like using someone but it really helps, besides just choose someone you think you like nor love of course.
