How can love just disappear?
By wigima5
@wigima5 (904)
United States
February 27, 2010 9:26pm CST
Relationships come and go. and I just seem to wonder, how can someone be so close to someone in a relationship, trust them completely and then after they break up they are like strangers? I mean sometimes you can be completely in love with someone and feel like they're the closest person in the world, tell all your secrets to, then you can break up and end up hating them as if nothing ever happened?
6 responses
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
28 Feb 10
I think the reason is the lost of trust. Once the trust was gone, the love will soon follows. While you are in a relationship, you love each other coz you trust each other, but when one of them breaks the trust of his or her partner, then hatred will come out. He or she will begin to hate the person, and it will really affect the relationship, which will ended up to a break-up. So trust is the most important thing in a relationship, it should always be there and should be kept. Have a nice day! Happy myLotting! 
@wigima5 (904)
• United States
28 Feb 10
That's a good idea, and is probably true.
But what bothers me is that it DOES happen. Then does that mean that all relationships are meaningless? Because then everyone you know, they're not forever, they can all leave you at any time, just like relationships fall apart. Your family, your best friends, people you know and love, is it all fake? If people can just leave, hurt, and forget eachother so easily...
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
28 Feb 10
That's why you should be independent. You should learn to stand on your own and learn not to depend to anyone. Always remember that there's no permanent in this world, all are just temporary. As you grow older, you should learn things. Always go to the right path and never in the wrong one. You should have dreams in life and that will become your motivation to go on. People do come and go, so as long as they are there, show them their importance, and hold on to them as long as you can. Just stay good and life will be good to you too. Take good care of yourself.
@wigima5 (904)
• United States
6 Mar 10
Very good statement. :) I guess it is true. If you truly truly loved someone insanely much, you will still slightly love them, no matter what. You need someone who will see you at ur worst, and best, and still love and accept you for who you are. Also, a first love, you usually never forget, ive heard.
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
28 Feb 10
Love can be killed...and maimed beyond recognition. My ex-husband started out as someone I respected and loved but he ended up as someone I would prefer not to speak to at all. This was entirely due to his bad behavior and my frustrations it caused. Bit by bit he destroyed my feelings for him. I don't hate him but he's nothing to me anymore and we haven't talked in years...not since the children we had together became adults.
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
28 Feb 10
Once the trust is gone from a relationship it is very hard to get it back. Some can but alot of people can't. I have wondered the same thing where you have told all your secrets and now they hate you or you hate each other. I have had only a few serious relationships and I'm still friends with them and could never hate them. Once I was in love with them, but that doesn't mean that the love goes away for the person. At least that is the way it is for me.
@marilynjose70 (32)
• Philippines
28 Feb 10
yes i agree with some of your questions...
one of my friend was done that hard times...
they were not only in a relationship but they were married and with kids...
love fades and hatred remains until now....why??
the girl falls to another guy and the guy discovered that.
some answer maybe depend on the cause of their break up...
