Does sharing the same bed w/your partner help in strengthening the relationship?

@debshie (392)
Philippines
February 27, 2010 10:12pm CST
I was once told about a young couple who have been together for almost 3 years. Before they had their child, they slept in the same bed but a few months after their kid was born, they stopped sleeping in one bed. This all first started when their kid was growing and space became little so the husband had to sleep in another bed but on the same room since the house had only 1 bedroom.. and then they moved to another place which had a bigger room, but it had become a habit that even until now I was told, they don't sleep on one bed still. Their kid I think is already 3 years old, which I think is old enough to sleep on his own, but then since the kid is already used to sleeping with his mother, he gets angry when the father would sometimes lie down on their bed because the kid now understand what ownership means.. father has a different bed while he and his mother has their own. It just me wonder how a young couple could form that habit when normally couples are supposed to sleep together. Do you think this habit would help create a gap between them or is this something they need to ignore. Do you think this is normal?
4 responses
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
28 Feb 10
Of course it will. Just imagine being in bed alone with your partner in a different bed and you're talking to each other but it seems that you are inches away from each other. I think its nicer if you are talking about something and holding each others hands, kissing and cuddling. That would be very sweet. It will really make your relationship become stronger.
@debshie (392)
• Philippines
28 Feb 10
I appreciate your comment. I agree with all of you, it does affect the relationship.
@Mike4me (567)
• Philippines
28 Feb 10
yes i do believe that sharing the same bed with your partner will strengthen your relationship. I mean a human's touch specially from the one you love, gives love aura to our body that makes our feeling even more stronger. Kids should learn while they are young.
@debshie (392)
• Philippines
28 Feb 10
thanks for your response. I would agree with you, kids should learn this while they are still young, it would be easier to teach them this way.
28 Feb 10
Every couple is different and many people like their own space. If they sleep apart it doesn't necessarily mean they are apart emotionally. If it suits them, then it's no one else's business. Personally, I'd hate sleeping apart from my husband. I need someone to warm my feet on! Even so, I do occasionally slip off to sleep in the spare bedroom when he's SNORING, which drives me mad and I just can't sleep. It doesn't happen very often, though.
28 Feb 10
yess it would