what do you look in a husband his face or his heart??

You have to have a good and honest heart. Looks for me, is definately last in line. No offense, but trusting a good looking guy, ain't always easy. And that is a very important aspect, Trust. But if you are good looking, have a good and honest heart, a great sense of humor and can be loyal you have a good chance. TATA.

heart. I don't go for looks alone. Cute guys are nice to have but underneath it all the personality and kindness of that person is what I'm after. I think that is more important than physical attributes.

i like the kind of guys like i have now. he is very very handsome. in fact, he is striking! but not so cute that he is feminine looking. he has a cut and fit body...great abs, but not tooo big where it is threatening. just manly enough to fit my body in. he has the most beautiful long down to his back wavy hair and light brown eyes. he is not too tall but not too short. everything about him physically is a turn on and always was right from the start. you know what really turns me on about him...his spirit. i love his mind and his soul. i love his talents and his skills. i love that he is the father of our daughter and that he embraced the son i had when we met. i love that he loves him so much he wants to adapt him. looks are important, but not without a beautiful mind and spirit.

select his heart, just not base only his face ... for select heart, treasure and listen to your heart

It's kind of hard not to be shallow. There's always the tendency of a person to take too much thoughts on looks. But to me, it always gets to me what kind of personality the person has eventually. It usually starts out with looks, and from there maybe you can explore the possibilities of the personality that the person has, which is always the final determining factor for any relationship. But then again there are these people whose personalities really are great even though they're not really that good looking. Really depends.

Physical attraction is a part of looking for a mate but it should not be center to it. I am more of a person who looks into someone's heart first rather than how he looks like. I must admit though that my husband is handsome even though I dont tell him that all the time. If a person has a good heart, and if he knows how to take care of himself and how to make himself look good then it's even better. We should always focus on what is in the person's heart. Let's say that you have the prettiest partner in the world but his/her heart is as black as charcoal then that would be a different story. Beauty also dont stay forever, beauty wears out as time goes on but a good heart will never wear out.