get married now!

I don't know if this is the same kind of thing you are talking about, but my in-laws won't stop shoving the idea of marriage down my throat. In fact, almost every time I see them, they try to pressure me into it. Yes, I understand they really love me and know that I am best for Amanda, but some times the pressure is just too much. But no, regardless, nobody should EVER be pressured into marriage. It isn't a chore. It is something that is desired and wanted. If you don't want it, don't do it and nobody should have to persuade you other ways.

That really sucks. I think they should leave her alone. What is the point in rushing into a marriage and then get divorced after a few months. You don't rush things like this. It takes time. She should just ignore the and enjoy her life to the fullest. TATA.

Hi careguarden! Tell your friend to do what she wants and not to listen to anyone, especially her family telling her what to do! When I was young and my family was pressuring me to get married I almost made one of the biggest mistakes of my life! I thankfully was able to stop myself, make my own decision and stop everything before it was too late! I was already living with my ex-fiancee, but I knew that he wasn't the right one! Don't ever let anyone pressure you into doing something that you don't feel is right for you because you can really ruin your life that way!

I don't think its a good thing to pressurize someone for marriage just because they are old enough. They should give you time to make that decision yourself. You should be ready both mentally and physically.

Hi Care, Well, it's a normal scene in a close-knit family ties. they do it out of concern for their family member to find the right one to be his or her lifetime partner. they too feared that if they want to have a baby, it will already be risky for the woman to bear a child when she married late. i look at it the positive way. the family wnats to be assured that there will be someone to take care of him or her when they get older. It's kinda irritating but let's see the positive side of it and we will have the appreciation of the pressuring to get married. of course it will always you who will decide whether you get married or not and if you have fouond the right partner in life.

Hi, I am a guy 28, having similar pressure. I can understand that. If most people refuse to marry and have baby, then human beings are in danger... population decrease may not be a good sign. People should have choic, but no doubt, they also have some social duty.