do you feel unattractive because you hate your face?
By Kumar1232009
@Kumar1232009 (1215)
Spain
7 responses
@bystander (2292)
• Philippines
2 Mar 10
do you hate your face, kumar? or do you feel unattractive? this issue about beauty can always be resolved with the saying that goes this way, beauty is on the eye of the beholder. add this, if you can't accept you looks, who else will. perhaps, kumar, your mother. and that would be tragic on your part.
@indocorner (546)
• Indonesia
4 Mar 10
hi Kumar,
People will be impressed at the first sight whether he/she looks beautiful but then they won't put much attention on it b'coz they tend to look how kind u r n how friendly u r. Inner beauty is d' real beauty that can make people interested in u.
I personally don't hate my face coz i have a cute n sweet face. hehe....(most people say so) but i often feel unconfident coz i ever failed in something. I'm not proud of myself. Though i'm helpful but i still feel that i'm useless coz i can't make my parents r proud of having a daughter as like me. U know??!! such feeling is worse than feel unattractive and/or ugly. So, don't look ur face down!! God never creates the worst creatures. It's common if some say u r beautiful n the rest say "not". Everything always has pro-cons. U'll look good if u think u look good.
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
2 Mar 10
Most of the reason why I have such low self esteem is because I am really down on my face, I don't look or feel beautiful, no one ever looks twice at me, because I do not have great looks. Looks get you a long way in this world and I believe that if you are good looking life deals you a kinder hand, you go further when you are good looking. I often wonder if I was rich whether I would go for plastic surgery and change my face, it's my mouth I have the greatest concern about, I look miserable all the time and I don't have nice lips, they put people off and people just don't find me attractive. I place a lot of emphasis on beauty and because I don't have beauty I have no self worth and I hide myself away. People bully me for the way I look and that makes me even more depressed, I have made an oath to stay single for the rest of my life, I don't bother looking any more because no one finds me attractive.
@Kumar1232009 (1215)
• Spain
4 Mar 10
i also feel that way. if all the things on my mind are just possible to do, i would want to go to a plastic surgery for my face, make my nose to a more aquiline structure, widen this epicantic eyes of mine, probably go for eye transplant into green or blue irish one, and even change my color from blackish to pale brown. why god did not make all people from all part of the world the same? i just felt jealous sometimes.
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@thesaiyanprince (542)
• India
1 Mar 10
at times most feel this way.. but we should not be hard on ourselves after all this face was given to us.. and we have unique faces.... we should be proud that no one else owns one like us..
@Kumar1232009 (1215)
• Spain
2 Mar 10
thanks.. i just wish if i'd be reincarnated, it'd be opposite! lolzz
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@ralphido (842)
• India
2 Mar 10
well.. i guess its because we grew up in a world with a very strict outlook on beauty.. we imbibed that sense as we grew up so we all feel we are imperfect and not good enough for the girl next door..we see our face everywhere in the mirror and just hate ourselves and filled up with self pity.. but after many years when we see the guy that girl married, we ask ourselves... how could she marry such a joke.. i was a much better looking guy than that moron.. why the hell didnt i go for her..
@Kumar1232009 (1215)
• Spain
4 Mar 10
there are times that we get used in realizing that. i just dont know that most of the time i just feel like i'm totally differ from others whom i think they are such better.
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@onlyprincess (782)
• Philippines
2 Mar 10
Hi kumar,
What you feel inside will reflect on the outside. So it's best to think positive and believe in yourself, because beauty is only skin-deep. And if you feel good inside, it will reflect on the outside. Try it and see the difference ;)
@Kumar1232009 (1215)
• Spain
4 Mar 10
hi princess, thanks for your comment..
have you heard the saying that goes this way? don't face your problem if your problem is your face... lolzzz..
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@figjam00 (1445)
• India
1 Mar 10
I think everyone feel like this every now and then even most of the beautiful girls feel lot bad about their faces even thought they are the prettiest ones in the world. At times I do feel but at others I feel I have the best face in the world. So in my view we should not think these petty things , we should be busy in something more productive so that these thoughts can be blocked out.
@Kumar1232009 (1215)
• Spain
2 Mar 10
thanks and i really appreciate your comment!
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