how to resign gracefully
By Greentea812
@Greentea812 (133)
China
March 2, 2010 5:02am CST
Hi one of my colleagues resigned today and have a quarrel with his manager before leaving.we talking about our experience of resignation and deciding it as a miserable thing in one's life,what about your opoinion on this,do you ever resign gracefully with receiving not only good bye but good luck?
7 responses
@Greentea812 (133)
• China
3 Mar 10
Hi bucklord,do you still have communication with your former employer?I resigned before,but we don't contact each other
@tigerlily1972 (502)
• Germany
9 Mar 10
when i left the company i worked for 13 yrs., i was sour but they all wish me good luck! I felt bad bec i was the only one who was not paid when the company offered early retirement. The owner knew that i am leaving anyway whether i be paid or not, so she did not approve for my payment. She gave me a big bag full of nice clothes instead as gift the day before my last day. The clothes sadly were a size bigger so i was not able to use them all. A few pcs i still have here, i wear at home-in fact i am wearing one right now, a Mark & Spencer Shirt. I remain friends from all employees and the owner too until this day.
@Greentea812 (133)
• China
9 Mar 10
Hi tigerlily,thanks for posting,I think you should not blab the information you want to leave to your owner,just make an application for early retirement is ok,so they should pay the early retirement fee to you.clothes are quite good for me ,hehe,I never received a gift from my company but a pencil,good luck and have a nice day!
@Greentea812 (133)
• China
3 Mar 10
Hi my friend,you have a good relationship with your coworkers by sharing your purpose to find a new job,sometimes I must keep it as a secret of mine own and won't blab to others to avoide unknown problem
@ralphido (842)
• India
2 Mar 10
well..in almost 90 % of the cases.. resignations are ugly.. unless, you are terminally ill or something, it always end in the blame game..women would get a better treatment over excuses lke marriage or pregnancy.. but usually the boss would pressurize you to reconsider.. if it fails, you would be abused, threatened, then made to understand what no good you are.. how incapable.. lacking caliber.. your whole morale goes down.. everybody feels pretty messed up..
@Greentea812 (133)
• China
3 Mar 10
Hi ralphido,that's why my colleague have a quarrel with his manager,he was abused and asked for doing something like " impossible task " ,he just can't bear this...but he is mature enogh to apologize for what he did by sending mail to his manager before leaving...thanks for posting
@donnakristel (1704)
• Philippines
2 Mar 10
it is not a good way to say goodbye (by quarreling) .
a letter of resignation is a must. and you have to state that you are happy to be with the company but sad to leave. things like that. state your point, straight to the point. don't mention below the belt words, bragging about your achievements etc. don't attack the management.
just say goodbye and thank you.
@Greentea812 (133)
• China
3 Mar 10
Hi donnakristel,thanks I learned more details from your posting,you are professional,we used to send a mail to whole site for saying goodbye,and my colleague apologized by sending such a mail.thanks for posting and have a nice day!
@homeshoppers (6166)
• Philippines
2 Mar 10
in my previous job my boss informed me that i already incurred a lot of late and absences and that she can no longer help me about that coz we need to follow company policy about late and absences, and so she told me to resigned before the company terminates me. and so i did, i just put it there that i need to resigned coz i need to process my visa for possible employment abroad. though i know that my boss know the truth but just to m\have a clean image with my co employee i just make it an excuse. and so when i left, i had a farewell party.
@Greentea812 (133)
• China
3 Mar 10
hi,homeshoppers it's really boring to work at a same time and a same place by doing same things day after day,but all company has it's rules,we can't break it unless we made enogh contribute to it,I must learn from your story for I often got late as well,thanks for share your experience
@LIENROSE (910)
• Philippines
2 Mar 10
well I was once employed as an encoder. The price is good but I encountered conflict with my schedule at schools as I have difficulty in balancing it because I am now a candidate to graduates this coming April, sadly I resign. My employee and my co-workers were sad about that but I managed to talk the pros and cons of it. They were glad about my perseverance to graduate first and hoping to be with them soon.
@Greentea812 (133)
• China
3 Mar 10
hi lienrose,you are right,I think your colleague and manager can fully understand and back up your decision,congratulations!