i just got dumped! :o

the very first thing to do is keep throw everything that reminds you of him. burn those pictures, get rid of those things he gave, throw the letters. delete the emails. all of that. then you are doing the right thing. keep yourself busy. go out with your friends. have a make-up. be beautiful .

i dont know if your a male or female as for me normally male got dumped anyway, its not that easy to be dumped so do i, but at least its better that way for at least you know the real score while still new than stay with it for long but theres only pain at the end. i got dumped to with my ex though he didnt say it personally but i feel like it is since his not answering his phone anymore. worst is i am pregnant right now and its hard without him, though thanks for my current bf for at least he makes me feel so happy now.

You have to be strong and try to reflect to what led to the whole situation. then you give yourself sometime and look for someone else. I am also available!!(joke) I hope you will be fine. I wish you all the best.

it is not to easy to forget. do the things that could make you happy. stay connected with your family, what i mean is have bonding with them. talk about what happened to you with your close friend. it would make you better, when you release the pain inside you.

Be thankful you're "free again" to do want you want to anytime, go anywhere you wish to, be with anybody you like, and "be in" in countless other activities without fear of being lectured to latter. Enjoy your new found freedom....somebody who is way above him is waiting to meet you. Good luck!!

Exercise, this really helped me when I was dumped. Don't look at the bright side of you being single again. You have all the available time now to do the things you wanted to do but couldn't cause you were in a relationship. Go shopping, travel hang out with friends and family. Just don't stay at home and think about what happened. That won't help you a bit. Focus on more productive things like learning a new language a new hobby or read a book.

Focus on yourself for a while. Now that you don't have to put time and effort into another person, revisit what it is that you like to pursue. Take up some volunteer work, take some classes (if you aren't already), look for things in your community. There are a lot of programs out there that need help. You would be appreciated, and you just never know who might end up meeting.

Take a vacation. Go somewhere else and find something to focus your attention to. Keep your self busy, you might want to take some short classes. Try focusing yourself to some community works. You can do it, just move on.

Hi autumndreamer, it's good that you have learnt to accept this cruel fact. It really is useless wallowing in sorrow over it. OK then, some suggestions from me, your big brother. What are some of the things you wanted to do but did not because you were attached? Where are some of the places you wanted to visit? You know yourself better. So you would know what you need to do to change your focus onto something more worthwhile. Maybe you can try to participate more in myLot. Give yourself a target to meet for the time being. Think of at least 5 discussion topics to write. Hopefully in no time you will be completely recover.

Breaking up is not easy. However, you were right when you said that it's not the end of the world. There are many things that life has yet to offer you. Don't get dismayed. Having a great support system like your family and friends would help a lot. Try doing activities to keep you busy. Or you can go on trips if you like. There are so many fishes in the ocean. Go girl! =)

If your dump then it doesn't matter at any cost because you can make your life by making another boyfriend and if he dump you then is not a normal guy so its better you also dump that guy from your life ok my dear friend.