keep your faith ,dear
By cindyhxf
@cindyhxf (1446)
China
March 3, 2010 8:35pm CST
I get a long call from a female friend .i am sorry to hear that her sad story.it is old style but also new to everyone today.
her husband went for other woman ,she asked him don't leave.but his heart was not belong her again.she should accept the reality,he won't come back again.he is a damn man in people 's eyes.we know we can't control people 's feeling and action.when he decided to leave.ok,let him go.
my friend just was unlucky to meet such a man .and i think every person have chance to face such problem,whom we will blame if it really happend to us one day?cry loudly and try to ask him back or fight or quarrel agian and again? or do something hurt each other? never happy again? or never trust man again?they are not wise way to do above.what you can do just do well yourself.try to start new life .
you know,time cures all things. don't try to get back any thing what you are not certain.
God close this door and will open another window for you.trust yoursefl ,keep faith in life,don't cry for a damn man.honey,you will get more joy.
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@raineyes (554)
• United States
4 Mar 10
Thank you for posting this. It was very inspirational, and I think would all do well to be reminded that sometimes bad things happen but there is far more good in the world than bad. And that things usually happen for a reason, and what is supposed to happen will find its own way.
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@OrangJuice (687)
• China
4 Mar 10
Yes, cindy, it's a sad story! But I think your female friends reacted naturally. Most women beg their partners in such situation. But it always works nothing.
Firstly, I hope everyone won't be in such situation forever. But yes, if she has to face it, you're right, just keep our own faith. And time is really good medicine for such hurt.
But it's really hard for people experiencing it!
Firstly, I hope everyone won't be in such situation forever. But yes, if she has to face it, you're right, just keep our own faith. And time is really good medicine for such hurt.
But it's really hard for people experiencing it! 
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
4 Mar 10
cindyhxf Yes you do make a lot of sense but too I do think women sometimes
are too quick to marry without spending a little time getting to know a man first,if he goes for another woman after they married he was probably what I call a player someone who does not want to settle down with one woman for any 
long period but have multiple playmates. so spend some time first even with all that passion, as its better to be single than marry and have your husband already leaving you. I know sometimes you cannot tell but usually you can if you just do not marry before he shows his true colors. You are right keep faith in life, dont cry for a man. Thanks for a great discussion. my emoticons will show what I think of the man that left your friend.
long period but have multiple playmates. so spend some time first even with all that passion, as its better to be single than marry and have your husband already leaving you. I know sometimes you cannot tell but usually you can if you just do not marry before he shows his true colors. You are right keep faith in life, dont cry for a man. Thanks for a great discussion. my emoticons will show what I think of the man that left your friend.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
6 Mar 10
This is a great story. However, I am also able to say that time does heal a lot of wounds so that they aren't nearly as raw as they once were, but it never completely heals a wound to your heart. What has happened to your friend is something that is going to have an impact on every relationship that she has for the rest of her life. It really is going to take a lot of time for her to learn to trust someone again.
