What am I suppose to do?
By dave_cuteboy
@dave_cuteboy (29)
Philippines
March 3, 2010 8:48pm CST
When I meet her, I fall in love that's why i courted her and we became lovers. I became a serious boyfriend to her and i felt also that she was loyal to me. I studied far at a university from from her that's why we seldom met. At the beginning of our relationship. Our communication was good but in the later part, she did not even text me on my phone. I been hurt to realize that the girl i miss so much doesn't miss me. The bitter truth is that I discovered that there was a guy who is very close to her. I guess that the guy is her new one. She keep on insisting to me that they have no relationship.That they are only friends. What should I do??Should i believe her or not?
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6 responses
@Lata_45 (217)
• India
4 Mar 10
Just give her a chance is she says so, i think you should go for it. As trust is most important aspect in love. Just trust her and just say her that if she likes someone else mention it to you. Meet her talk to her before jumping into conclusion.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
9 Mar 10
your experience like my condition now my friends.like you, we are in separated city. before the accident, i always believe on her because iam sure that only her i need.but since 2 months ago, i see she is changed. like you, iam hurt and i dont know that i had to believe with her or not.
@mich_23 (120)
• Philippines
9 Mar 10
Long distance relationships can sometimes cause strain to both of you especially if you feel the feeling is beginning to fade away from one of you. You can indeed feel the difference because it has not been like that before. You're girlfriend is the only one who can answer if they really have a relationship or not. If she said so that their just friends, believe her. Trust is an important part in the relationship,but do not hope too much. Expecting too much from a person may be the cause of too much hurt cause you will feel betrayed. The important thing is you have given you're all and you did your best to make the relationship work.
@markroderick (888)
• Philippines
6 Mar 10
The best thing for you to do is talk to her about how you really feel towards your relationship. I'm also in a long distance relationship right now and no matter how busy we are on our jobs, We always find time to text and call each other every end of the day. Or maybe she is just preoccupied with all the school work and this guy is just a friend or a group mate for a school project. But if i were you try to surprise her and go to her school maybe you can find the answers after. Goodluck and God Bless!!!
@junrapmian (2169)
• Philippines
4 Mar 10
Well, I guess, the saying "Absence makes the heart grow ponder" does not fit you two. Or maybe, you did not put much effort in communicating with her often, that's why her attention was caught by other guy. Anyways, if you love her enough, you may do some steps to rekindle the love that is slowly fading. Do call her always, email her or chat with her. Assure her that though you're not near her, you always love and miss her. Now, if you feel that her attention and love is no longer yours, let her go. She may not be deserving of your love.
