Who will you choose?

i dont agree that we can teach our hearts to love. love is a feeling not something to be learn. so im going to choose the ONE WHO I LOVE MOST. for me, its not really important if the one i love doesnt love me back. in loving we should take risks. as long as i love her even without returns, i will still be proud because i know that im really feeling love. no offense but for me, those people who chose the person WHO LOVES THEM MOST seeks not love but ASSURANCE!.. assurance of not getting hurt and assurance that they will be loved by their partners. thats human nature. we always want to feel loved by someone we love. but like i said, LOVE IS A FEELING! ITS NOT SOMEHING TO BE LEARN :) lets spread love and make this a better world! :)

Hello, Well, I respect your decision. I think this is the best decision, the wisest. The kind of love you are talking about is grown out of attachment. It can grow out of nothing. Staying with the one who loves you the most as you will, in time, invariably fall in love with him. Have you heard the song, "I love the way you love me.. strong and wild... slow and easy.." Yeah, this kind of love can grow anytime. It basically depends on the degree of attachment. God bless you

Well, I have a different thinking. I would choose to be the one I love the most. It's just that I cannot be with the one I don't like even if he loves me the most. If I don't like him then sorry, I just can't be happy with anyone but the one I love. Besides, if I choose the one that loves me, it doesn't mean too that he will love me til the day I die. You can never tell until when that person will love you.

I would make the same choice as you because, as you said, you can learn to love this person as long as they love you first. If they love you, and you don't yet have these feelings in return, they will treat you well and you will learn to do the same for them because eventually, the feelings will be mutual!

=) Well but its not the same thing to want someone than love someone, would you like to be with the someone you love knowing that she doesn't really loves you?... I think that would be cool for me, I mean it really hurts but I prefer being the one who suffers than make another soul suffering with that... Its better to say the truth ... but every case are uniqe ..

When we love, we never expect the person to love us back. We have to be contented that we have that feeling in our heart. I go for the one who love me the most. As I have said, love can be learned and learned again, there's no end to it. The key to love is to add to another's life without subtracting from one's life

Oh, I don't know that you can actually learn to love anyone. I think that this is a recipe for a disastrous relationship and it really isn't fair to the person who loves you more. You have to take a chance and give your heart to the person that yoy love the most. There is nothing more fulfilling than doing things for someone that you love that much.

I agree, you cannot teach anyone to love you, you may never be successfull. TATA.

hi friend same about me i would like to choose the person who loves me the most not the one i love the most,then only i can get more love i be happy always.