Do you add everyone who post replies to your discussion?

I have a different style of selecting friends - When I go through their discussions or responses if I am satisfied then I go to their profile study their interests and if it matches to my taste then I decide myself and make a friendship. Of course every one have their own style of making friendship. Making friendship is always advantageous you can share so many things with them and also learn what you do not know. Here on my lot many friends are helpful .

I have a few friends yet... When I signed up here 3 years ago, I went to each of the member's profile here and add them specially if the replied my post... but when I came back months ago, I selected those friends whom I invited a friend's request... and most of the times I would love to be a friend of those who are active in here and do share relevant ideas... nevertheless, if am requested by some new comers here... then I would add them too my friends...

Having friends indeed increases the number of responses you get to your discussion. Two reasons: Your discussion appears for a longer time in your friends profile than on the main discussion panel. Second reason, some people answer to the discussion just hoping they would when he/she posts one. I sometimes add the people who posts to my discussions, because I am impressed with their replies and I do rate them.

Not everyone, if this certain member have the replies that was amazing to read on, I will invite him or her to become my friend. If I don’t find the replies interesting, I just leave it there, but I truly appreciate their response, much more if they are not included on my friend’s list. Sometimes I do not add them but they invite me to be their friends as I know they find my comments on their response really friendly. I do not reject invitation. I approved it all because I do want more friends on my list. I want to receive more discussion everyday. i have a goal everyday here in Mylot and I have to meet it. And not all discussion of my friends interest me, so I have to have many friends on the list.

Hello sether. I used to post a lot, but now as I have been busy, I post fewer. I am looking forward to having more time for posting and responding to friends' responses as many as possible. Welcome to mylot, sether.

I do not add every other responder of my discussions its just that if i find a mylotter who has contributed good information or if they share the same interests as me then they would make way into my friends list---as you keep on learning things here you would be in a stage to differentiate as who are looking for your discussions rather than those who look to make an post just to increase their post count---its true that the more friends you have the more responses your discussions get--- provided they're good enough.great day.

I don't add everyone that replies to my discussions. Having friends does help to get replies to your discussions but not every friend will reply. I had a friend that would get mad at his friends not replying to his posts but yet he never replied to mine and I tried to reply to his whenever I could.

Welcome to mylot family sether. I do not add everyone now, who responds to me. Earlier when I was a newcomer like you, I would do the same. Now, I only add those, whose response I find exceptional. I already have a very long list of friends and I cannot afford to be 'fair' to everyone's discussion/post/response.

It is good idea to add those who reply the discussion. I did not care for it and it resulted me the degrade in my star value. Friendship is a need, not only on mylot.com, but every where in the world. So I totally agree with you and I would like to add those fellows who reply or participate in the discussion I use to start.

I only added people who really add some value to a discussion, either in the start posts or in the comments. I don't think you have to add everyone, it 'cheapens' your friend list I think. Have a great day

Hi, welcome to mylot...well for me, it would be nice to add everybody if i had the time. Sometimes, my laziness lurks but i would interestingly read every single bit of responses that i get from people here. I appreciate it so much that they are sharing their thoughts, feelings, reactions, and comments to my started discussion. Have a great day and happy mylotting!!! :)

I don't really add friends.. I just wait for them to add me. LOL. That's why I don't have that many friends I think.. maybe I should start adding them.. But I really don't like to add people if we haven't really had much any contact or conversation in any discussions.. It's just kinda weird to do that.

Yes I do get not only responces but replies to my discussions.There had been instances that I got replies in details.

Have only submitted one discussion so far but i think it won't be necessary to add everyone. Adding them is no assurance of a participation in your every discussion and, if this is the basis for adding someone as a friend, sorry, but personally i think this is not an encouraging reason.

I seldom add someone to my friends list. Though there are more than a hundred people in my friends list, there are a few to whom i post a friend request. It's true that a greater number of friends helps you get more responses since many people prefer to respond first to discussions started by their friends. But i never rely on friends for more responses and when i reply to discussions, i choose those that arouse my interest, not just because they are started by my friends.

I never add people. Well, I just accept their invitation. You see, I don't see the point of having friends in mylot. Oh, I don't mean to be a snob, but unless I have something I need to talk to about with the person here, then feel free to add. But if it's just collecting these people, then I don't have time for that. If we like the topics a person does, then we could well see it in the discussions, right? Similarly, if we like to react to these discussions, then we could do it freely even if we're not friends, just post. I do understand that there are those who add me since they'd like to ask me a question or two, but all-in-all what's there to add if we could talk in the discussions? I don't follow a particular person, I choose topics as they are presented, regardless who posted it. So there you go, I don't add every person who replies. I just add those who want to add me.

I don't add everyone that responds to my discussions, but I do add some of those that respond to my discussions when I notice that they've responded to several of the discussions that I've started. I beieve if you come to recognize their name from them responding to the discussions that you've started then it is time to add them as a friend and to have the opportunity to truly forage a relationship with them. One of the things that I do, however, is to take the time to respond to every person that responds to the discussions that I've started.

Well, that's true...you will get more response the more friends you have..But I got bored adding friends all the time...So I decided to pick my friends one at a time.. If you have interesting question then the replies will come to you automatically.

Dear sether7, I always add myLot profile who reply/respond my discussion.

Like you I'am just new here on my lot. As of a day ago i have just one friend she accepted me to be a friend. But since then I added a lot more but as of now na one added me to be a friend. Really hope that I get a lot of friends here. I like making friends with others. As to widen up my knowlage in life