frugal fatigue?
By cutepenguin
@cutepenguin (6431)
Canada
March 4, 2010 9:43am CST
I've been reading a lot of articles lately about how people are getting tired of being frugal. I think this means I'm behind the times, because a lot of the articles were about last Christmas. Still, it's an interesting idea - people were starting to give up on being frugal.
How about you? Are you getting tired of being frugal? What do you do to re-energize yourself if you need to?
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@jesssp (2712)
• Canada
4 Mar 10
I know sometimes I do take a step back and think 'is this really worth it?' Saving money is great and I don't like to waste money but sometimes the whole frugal living thing can get a little tiresome. Time is money and if something that saves a few bucks is taking up a ridiculous amount of my time then it stops being worth it. I just try to balance the money savers with the time savers and hope that I come out on top in the end!
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@cutepenguin (6431)
• Canada
4 Mar 10
yeah, a lot of times the frugal path takes extra time. It's hard to tell if it will be worth it.
@hvedra (1619)
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5 Mar 10
You are right that time has to be managed as effectively as money. My rule is "if I wasn't doing this money saving thing would I be saving money by doing something else"? Some things might save us small amounts of money but they can be fun to do and as long as it is a positive activity it is better than taking the easy option and sitting in front of the TV or something.
@Citizen_Stuart (2016)
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4 Mar 10
I'm not tired of being frugal, at least not to any great extent. I miss being able to buy stuff I fancy straight away, but I'm at a time in my life when I'm having to watch the pennies, and I can go for a few months without a new TV or whatever. I've actually developed the mental habit of taking great pride whenever I save money, buying old books and videos in charity shops etc.
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@cutepenguin (6431)
• Canada
4 Mar 10
For me it isn't really a habit yet. We don't really buy things, but we aren't really frugal about food or books or gifts yet.
@peavey (16936)
• United States
5 Mar 10
I don't think I ever actually get tired of being frugal, but I sometimes fail in saving money the way I should. I have learned to give myself a little leeway. I have seen people embrace the frugal lifestyle so much that they don't allow themselves even the smallest luxury. That gets them in trouble because they begin to feel deprived. I think it's a matter of finding a balance, and then rebalancing until you're more and more frugal without it really affecting your basic sense of well being. The newly frugal (because of the economy) don't often understand that and tend to go "whole hog" then get burned out... or develop frugal fatigue.
@cutepenguin (6431)
• Canada
5 Mar 10
I've always been somewhat frugal, but I've been trying to be more frugal. I am trying hard to find the balance, but I think I might end up back where I was before. (Which wasn't unfrugal by any means)
@happythoughts (4109)
• United States
3 May 10
I get tired of being so tight. But there are things I have learned that I will probibly never go back on. I get so tired of all the thinking involved in being frugal, and I know if I just got it down that the thinking wouldnt be so hard.
I make my own laundry detergent and it saves a ton. Its so simple and only has to be done once a month. That way I can do it when I feel like it. I also bake bread for my family to eat, which also saves a ton. Its not as simple and I need to do it alot more often so I tend to skimp on that one. Once a month is very different from two to three times a week. If I could simplify all of it I think I would never have those times when I give up and get tired of it.
When ever I notice our savings going down I get a re-energizing burst that lasts a while but I wish it never had to get that far.
@cutepenguin (6431)
• Canada
3 May 10
I get energy bursts, too, but I can't really tell where they come from. Sometimes it's just if I haven't paid as much of our debt, but sometimes it comes from if we've paid a lot.
I think in the end, we will never really be un-frugal, but I don't think we will be this tight forever either. everybody will find some middle area that they are comfortable with.
Homemade bread tastes great, don't you think? But it is a lot of work.
@kykidd (6812)
• United States
20 Jun 10
I do get tired of not going out and splurging on different things that I would like to have. But, I have never really done that. Even when I was in a career where I was making really good money, I would still be frugal and save for a rainy day. Plus, I invested in things that will make my life easier in the long run.
I guess, that one thing people can do, is just look at how it is all going to pay off in the long run. I had to save a lot of money, and being really frugal helped with that, to invest in one of my rental properties. This property still doesn't really earn money, but I know that when I get older, it will be paid in full, and then the rental income will be like a retirement income for me.
So, one thing we can do is just to really look forward to the future.
Another thing we can do, is plan a trip. Whether you actually make the purchase, I feel that it is neat sometimes to sit and plan a trip. Most of the time, I do eventually take the trips. But, it is really neat if you can plan stuff out 2 or 3 times and find the best deals possible. It makes you feel really good about being frugal.
@cutepenguin (6431)
• Canada
21 Jun 10
It's getting easier now. We've settled into a routine, and we have certain areas where we can spend money if well-planned.
@rosegardens (3034)
• United States
5 Mar 10
I do get tired of being frugal. Sometimes it is exhausting trying to figure out what bill or necessity to spend the money on. I had hoped not to be in this position, but I am and will continue to be.
@cutepenguin (6431)
• Canada
5 Mar 10
It's not fun at all to constantly be juggling. I was in that position for a really long time. We slowly moved out of it - I'm sure you will eventually too.
@rosegardens (3034)
• United States
5 Mar 10
Yes, as long as I continue to have house mates it will be fine. Once I get the big ticket items done around the house things will be better. Right now I'm saving what I can to get these things done, and hopefully in the next 2 years they will get finished. I just hope the housemates will last that long.
Thank you very much for your good thoughts. I hope that you will come out of it and never have to be in this position again. Though I think for younger people, they should be when they are starting out. It teaches character and patience, gratitude when things are going well and charity for those who are struggling.
Happy Mylotting!
@laglen (19759)
• United States
5 Mar 10
I think of it as a challenge and look forward to bargains. I like how much more I can get if I choose wisely. I can understand the fatigue and frustration. I then just go out and splurge on a little something and then I usually feel better.
@cutepenguin (6431)
• Canada
5 Mar 10
I try to make it a game. Sometimes, though, I just get sick of always having to think about things.
@cutepenguin (6431)
• Canada
7 Mar 10
I give myself days off every once in awhile, where I don't have to try to make more money or really think about it. But I also don't spend money on those days.
@gdesjardin (1918)
• United States
5 Mar 10
I have been frugal for many years now. I love knowing that I have saved a bunch of money of certain items. I enjoying getting the best bargains, and showing my family that you can feed a family of 5 on 55 dollars a week (with no coupon clipping). What I have gotten frustrated about is the fact that I HAVE to be frugal these days thanks to the economy. What used to be something I enjoyed doing and what a hobby for me, is now a necessity. That somehow takes all the fun out of it.
@cutepenguin (6431)
• Canada
5 Mar 10
Yes, once it becomes a necessity it's no longer like you're winning a game. It's more like a chore.
@my_name_is_coco (4333)
• Philippines
7 Mar 10
I don't get tired of saving.in fact,I feel complacent that I have my own savings.I don't want to grow old without any money I can't use for the future.while I have no plans of retiring,I would still want to have money saved up in case of emergencies.I want to be financially secure and not worry about my financial future.
@cutepenguin (6431)
• Canada
7 Mar 10
I want that too. But I wonder where the line is between spending too much time focused on saving and not spending enough time saving.