Do shops sell inappropriate clothes for little girls ?
By louisefrank
@louisefrank (356)
March 4, 2010 2:48pm CST
I've recently seen more and more shops and supermarkets selling clothes for little girls that to my mind are completely inappropriate. Little T-shirts with sexy slogans, very short skirts, high heels, tube tops and cropped tops are all for sale. I've seen little girls of five or six in suggestive tops and high heels and wearing make-up. Little girls should be playing games, reading and rocking their dolls to sleep, not dressing up like street walkers out looking for custom. Does anyone agree with me or am I being an old stick-in-the-mud fuddy duddy?
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
4 Mar 10
If you are an old stick-in-the-mud fuddy duddy then that makes two of us because I absolutely agree with you
I was looking in a shop this afternoon for some garments for my new grandson and to reach the 3-6 month department I had to go through those with clothes for older children. I was amazed at what I saw. Admittedly it is a long time since I went to the children's department but come off it! The clothes for the girls were not at all appropriate in my opinion.
I don't know where the blame lies. I guess if manufacturers are producing them it is because the masses are buying them Children don't seem to get a chance to be children any more - and on abother note... I saw a user here yesterday who said that he started watching p*rn at six years old Thats curely is the parents fault for letting it be available.
If I have any say in my grandson's upbringing, he will be allowed to be a child for as long as he should be!
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@louisefrank (356)
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4 Mar 10
At six years old?! That's appalling!
If parents stopped buying those clothes, the manufacturers would stop making them, I suppose. It seems to me that part of the problem is that some parents find it so hard to say "no" and give in to pester power. Every young girl you see on TV - in the girl bands, in the soaps etc - all seem to be dressed like hookers, if you ask me! I find it all very sad. I never gave a thought to what I was wearing when I was at primary school - threw on my uniform in the morning and threw on jeans and a jumper when I came home!
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
4 Mar 10
Me too! I wasn't allowed to wear 'stockings' either and at 13 I was told they were not necessary. I remember getting myself a Saturday job and buying my first pair which I treasured. Before that age I was not interested in any fashion at all.
It is all going wrong somewhere and not just because I'm getting older. If the consequences are negative then it can't be a good thing. The trend is now for so many underage pregnancies and surely that is proof that children are no longer allowed to be kids any more. I doubt it is really their choice but the media puts it all in fronr of them all day long every day and parents don't do their 'job' correctly anymore
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@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
5 Mar 10
I haven't run into this type of clothing yet when I shop for my girls. Maybe I'm in the wrong store. lol In the past I caught my older daughter a few times thinking she was going to sneak out in her little sisters clothing which is way tight on her. They are close in age but shes a bit thicker in size where baby sister is a teeny tiny thing. So I asked her one day why she insisted on dressing like pedo bait. She wanted to know what that meant so I told her and she hasn't attempted to dress like a short hooker any longer.
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@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
5 Mar 10
Oh and not sure about everyone else but I've noticed young girls where I live think they are teenagers. They try to act and talk just as a big teenage girl does, have that I know it all attitude that some of them can have and pretend the got drama. lol its too funny and a bit scary. I'm not ready for the real deal yet.
@louisefrank (356)
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5 Mar 10
I wonder if they get their attitudes from television. The soaps here in Britain feature story lines that aren't really suitable for children, yet the soaps are on at around 7.30pm when lots of children are still up.
@recycledgoth (9894)
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5 Mar 10
I feel that children grow up far too quickly these days and the media and fashion industry have cashed in on this and produced these clothes for tiny little kids. To be honest I don't relly like seeing little children wearing these clothes, it may be ok once they are teenagers, but I would much sooner see these kids beling allowed to be kids.
@louisefrank (356)
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6 Mar 10
I find it sad. We all know teenagers are going to push the boundaries but I think pre-teenagers shouldn't be allowed to dress provocatively.
@junil_jk (496)
• India
5 Mar 10
count me in too - i agree with you! they should be rocking their dolls to sleep now! just imagine how will be their morality when they grow up more! by the time they reach adolescence they'd be ready to do all kinds of things with the mentality they are getting from now onwards! the world's advancing with each passing day but we should keep certain things in mind and preserve them - and modesty is one of them.
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@louisefrank (356)
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6 Mar 10
It seems we don't encourage enough "modesty" in children these days. I too worry about what they are going to be like when they reach adolescence.
@Mike4me (567)
• Philippines
5 Mar 10
I definitely agree with you. I just don't understand why clothes for kids are mostly like that, back less clothes and some tubes, mini skirts, I mean I don't understand, kids are supposed to be kept warm by clothes and be protected from insect bites, but what stores are selling are the opposite. There isn't much to see in a little girl of they want them to look sexy, c'mon, they're just little girls.
If ever i'm gonna have a daughter, I will never ever have her clothe on skimpy outfits specially when she's still a little girl, that is just a bad example, in my opinion.
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@louisefrank (356)
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5 Mar 10
Thanks for your comment. You make a really good point that clothes for young children should be functional - suitable for school, to play in and to keep them warm; they shouldn't be "sexy" at all.
@hofferp (4734)
• United States
5 Mar 10
I blame the parents for the clothing that kids wear. Who's money was used to buy it? If the parents stopped buying these often inappropriate clothing items, the shops would stop selling them. That makes two old stick-in-the-mud fuddy duddies...
@patgalca (18369)
• Orangeville, Ontario
5 Mar 10
Yes, I have felt the stores have been selling skanky clothes for young girls. I've been very disgusted by it. It made it hard to shop for my girls. However, my daughters were quite tomboyish in their dressing style until their tween years so I didn't have to worry about it much. I can rarely get my girls into dresses even now at 13 and 16... only for very fancy occasions and then they need a new dress for whatever comes along. Expensive and annoying.
My 13yo is graduating grade 8 this year and we just went shopping for a dress for her graduation. So many of the dresses are strapless. I can't even find a dress for myself that has sleeves! I want to be able to wear a dress to church but church-appropriate dresses are hard to find. It's pretty chilly here in the winter in Canada and finding a dress with sleeves is necessary, but almost impossible.
What is wrong with designers these days? Can't they design stuff for every type of person? They are still gearing towards skinny, sexy women and that's just not right.
@louisefrank (356)
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6 Mar 10
So true. I'm glad your girls aren't going down that "tarty" road. I think your last sentence should start a whole new discussion - it's a really interesting point. I'll leave it to you!
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
4 Mar 10
hi louisefrank if you are an old stick in the mud fuddy duddy, then I am with you on this. I have seen some really young girls in clothes that usually you expect to see on a street walker not a kid of ten or twelve years old. They should be little children until they are in their teens not messing around with rouge,.lipsticks and tight skirts and blouses or tops so low cut its pathetic. whatever happened to little girls'being little girls, who is trying to make them grow up too fast? what ever are their parents thinking? If I was a mom I would not let my preteens wear lipstick and cosmetics and date teenage boys, I would want them to have a normal childhood first before the terrible teens.
@louisefrank (356)
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5 Mar 10
I totally agree with you. I find it all very sad and worry about the message we are giving little girls that they feel they have to be sexy and provocative. I wonder how they will grow up.
@celticeagle (167017)
• Boise, Idaho
5 Mar 10
I have seen some very inappropriate clothing on little girls. Who lets them dress like that? And not being taught to be ladies in these short skirts is sad. Parents don't care. They listen to a child yell for what they want and get it rather than try to teach them some morals and how to be appropriate. Ya, we are both being old stick-in-the-muds. So let it be. My grandmother would turn over in her grave...
@louisefrank (356)
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5 Mar 10
Thanks for commenting both of you. Celticeagle - parents are too easily persuaded to give in to parents. When my parents said "no" to me they meant "no" and they always presented a united front. And Posey - I'm glad you agree as I'm sure lots of young people do.
@Canellita (12029)
• United States
5 Mar 10
No matter what is sold in the stores is doesn't mean you have to purchase any of it. I think some people think it is cute to see girls dressed this way until the girls start to become aware of sexuality and then they want to turn them into little kids again.
The world we live in has too many of the wrong kinds of influences for kids and with all pedifiles you would think mothers would be more careful.
@Canellita (12029)
• United States
10 Mar 10
Well, when you look at the attire of some of the mothers...
@louisefrank (356)
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6 Mar 10
I agree with all you say. In this day and age I find it hard to believe that parents aren't more aware of inappropriate dress for their children.
@nocturn98 (956)
• Venezuela
6 Mar 10
It doesn't matter if those shops sell inappropriate clothes for little girls, I doubt that the little girls have the money to pay for their own clothes. It's the parents who buy those things for them and if they are stupid enough to buy those for their kids then they are to blame.
@louisefrank (356)
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7 Mar 10
You're so right. I don't know what's going on in the heads of parents who allow their pre-teens to dress like little tarts.
@pandaeyes (2065)
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5 Mar 10
I think it is a bit out of hand.
There are some awfully 'adult' looking things for children.
Most little girls like to dress up sometimes but that can easily be achieved with a dressing up box just for play.
The dolls are just as bad.
Dolls now look like toddlers but with make up and sassy looking clothing.
I am sure if a child is bought that type of thing, they feel it is quite acceptable to dress the same because otherwise they wouldn't be, being given toys epitomizing it.
Music trends can encourage it too.
I remember seeing two children standing outside a department store shouting 'give me what I want, what I really really want' and cavorting about quite graphically and thinking, Oh that is awful, they are so small they don't understand the actual meaning of what they are doing.
@louisefrank (356)
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5 Mar 10
You make some excellent points. I remember dressing up in my mother's clothes and high heels as a child - that was fun! This is a whole different ball game and I think the sexualising of young children is something we should be worried about.