your pride or your love???

pride isn't good in love. i think both of you should apologize to each other in your relationship.

When we have argument, sometimes I stay quiet and wait my girlfriend talk to me, because my stupid pride. I do not think it is good, I mean I had better talk to her first, I want to do that, but even if I want to talk my girlfriend after argument, sometimes I can not talk to her first, I do not know why, actually I am very contradictory, I have no idea what am i suppose to do. I do not want to lose her because my stupid pride.

if you really love that person, you don't go with your pride. even the most stupid thing he did, i believe you will find it to gorgive him, unless he betrayed you with having an affair to another... i think that's the only thing that you can't forgive someone in a relationship.

well if i really really love that person, i will choose love. pride is often the problem in a relationship, or it may cause the break up. if i really love the person i am with right now, i'll do anything just to be with him. of course i love myself, but having too much pride on yourself is bad.

if its his mistakes then i did not tolerate it, i want him to think that what he did was wrong coz if i just keep quite and accept it then theres a tendency that he will keep on doing the same thing. sometimes we also need our pride to save us for instance like if what he did was already a big slap to our face or been like an insult then i didnt just it for granted as i want him to feel that i still have worth and im not his puppet or toy that he just play with whenever he wants too.

:) the relationship is so serectly for people each other,in any way, at lovers ,the relationships is the most serectly. if our want to do the best of the relationship for people that we must be use heart.

i don't compromise between love and pride. whenever me and my husband is into a fight, and i realize that it is my fault, i don't hesitate to ask for a sorry. same with him, his weakness is to see me cry. i seldom cry, but when i do, he already knew that i am deeply hurt and when it happens, he would right away tame me and ask for a sorry. we have agreed that if we fight, we should say things that will hurt the feelings of another like bad words or calling each other names, by that, we could easily patch up. and even when we disagree, we try to agree so as to save the relationship.

i am more for pride. but i am trying to manage it now. i don't want to lose my love because of my stupid pride. but when i know i am right and correct. i will stand and forget my love for my pride. if it is my fault, i will say sorry and accept my mistakes.

before i was like that its my pride that im think of, when me and my boyfriend arguing. now, if i know that im the one who do the mistake i admit my mistake and im say sorry to him. if you want a relationship to last longer you should not let pride overcome. love should be the factor that overcome in a relationship.

before i was like that its my pride that im think of, when me and my boyfriend arguing. now, if i know that im the one who do the mistake i admit my mistake and im say sorry to him. if you want a relationship to last longer you should not let pride overcome. love should be the factor that overcome in a relationship.

Hi lucy, Keeping mum doesn't imply either showing pride or a display of ego.It belongs to your responsibility to convey that you're being hurt to an extent that doesn't allow to keep talking even if you want.Again it's not about love,but understanding.Think of a situation where you are making a bond of being disrespected all through your life because of your weakness called LOVE.NO.There is no love being in servitude that weakness disposes.My advice is to come out of the dilemma of initiating the talk.Resist yourself so that he understands what wrong he's done and also take some time to make sure that you are not wrong.