Study Pressure On Children " BY THERE PARENTS" !!!!!!!!
By nadeem2491
@nadeem2491 (54)
India
March 5, 2010 7:37am CST
In this growing society parents are putting so much pressure on children to study to get good marks. Because of this so much sucide cases are register now-a-days. I think that government should seriously look after this growing sucide of childrens.
Should parents be blamed or children are soul responsible of this?. This question is stricking in my mind.......
What the hell this politician an government is doing regarding this problem.
This problem should be highlighted. Every problem have a solution but it should be found properly......
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4 responses
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
6 Mar 10
Yes, this is happening.. But it is in only Asia and some other developing/undeveloped countries... I think, in western countries, they have an entirely different and more friendly approach towards studies... :)
Who is to be blamed? Parents, or the kids, or the Govt.? I don't blame any of them directly. We certainly can't blame the kids- they're highly innocent... Parents fall prey to the on going competition for the talent and rewards and fame. Each of the parent believes that their kid is going to be a Doc or an engineer... They fail to understand the real talent that is hidden in a kid. For example, a kid might be a good artist, it might have the potential to become an artist. But parents don't realise it, they simply pressurize the little bud to study. Result: The kid gets spoiled and his artistic talent is ruined.. The Govt. is always blamed for anything that goes wrong.. And yes, Govt has played a huge role in all this destruction...
The educational system that we have in our country has been designed when we were ruled by the Great Britain. They implemented a system that simply created an army of clerks. Unfortunately, no one thought about changing it after we got freedom. There has been a lot of discussion upon how to change the system etc. but no one takes an initiative... And as long as this system exists, parents will keep nagging the kids and force them study and...
@nadeem2491 (54)
• India
9 Mar 10
I do understand because of miss guide students fails to understand there inner talent an run for those think which others are putting interest but parents are there they should understand how much there child can do an take out the best from them.
in this way a solution can be created parents should take advise with there children for there future as they are going to live with that.
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
9 Mar 10
No, I don't think a discussion between parents and the kids is going to do anything... I tried it with my parents when I was a student and it resulted in my being rebellious and their being too strict... Final Result: No one is happy today!
The only solution is to start with career guidance committees... Yes, there're so many of them, but none of them is gunuine.. I think each school should create such a department and guide parents as to how their kids can make a better and happy life... These people will be able to determine the interests of the kid. Only psychologists can do this job...
@nadeem2491 (54)
• India
10 Mar 10
Yup i agree with u but also differ in some points as why a child or a parents need a psychologist the are adult also at some point they have been a child so why they cant understand the feelings of there children.
Career guidance is some what a useless attempt tried by government but the only need of child that there parents understand there feeling an simply give them a chance to prove there talent if they don't then there parents can give them advice and speak out with them.
@frizvi (98)
• India
6 Mar 10
Children should not be pressurised by the parents for studie/marks as the pressure on the re already there by society. The bottom line is success ,Children shuld get success in their life what ever they do.Prent should grom the children in such a manner that they should understant the importance of studies and their career.SAme applie to the teachers ,as many times they also equaly responsible for the pressure they put on their pupil.
@nadeem2491 (54)
• India
9 Mar 10
Children can only understand the meaning of success when there parents in place of pressuring calmly discuss with there children then only they can understand there child properly an this can come out with a solution that can do what they want in life an parents should guide them in there carrier.
@Beautyfactor (1512)
•
5 Mar 10
Kids are under too much pressure now to perform and produces top notch grades. I also think there are far too many exams. My daughter is only eight and she has tests every two weeks that she has to study for. While I am aware that my girls do need good grades to get the better jobs, I don't put any pressure on her to do well. We simply tell her to study until she understands and remembers and that she can only do her best. So far it seems to be working and she doesn't see exams or tests as such a big deal so she is not stressing sbout them. Her last test results were a perfect score and that was in her Spanish language. The funny thing is that she is the only English girl in the class and she got better grades than all of her Spanish classmates in the subject of Spanish language. I am really proud of her!
@phungminhthu (176)
• Singapore
6 Mar 10
Hmm,i agree with what u said!It's a undeniable truth in this growing society but is there any other ways for us to get rid of this situation???people are now being considered by their education,everyone will respect you if you are have good education background!
