Do you like me? Ever asked this to your friend!
By tintukm
@tintukm (1102)
India
March 5, 2010 12:28pm CST
I believe this would be a question not many of us would have directly asked to their friends never mind a boy or a girl.A boy would not mostly have this kind of question being asked to his boy friend ,an exception in case of girls though,girls do ask these questions to their girlfriends,I believe ,or do they?
Its a bit physiological kind of think,when one is in a deep trouble or any situation where he/she feels that their beloved most close friend can be a traitor or the one responsible for any thing that disturbs the individual.That's when these sorts of questions get tagged!
What do you have to say,is this normal to ask or well thinking its not so!Share it.
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6 responses
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
5 Mar 10
Hi, tintukum. I admit that it is normal to ask another friend this that is a female. A boy vs a female. And a female vs a female. It would be okay. I have told my mother-in-law that I think that she does not like me at all. It is because of the way that she is treating me. She treats me very mean sometimes. And she says and does things that make me think that she has something against me. That is why I try to keep my distance away from her too.
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@tintukm (1102)
• India
15 Mar 10
There is so much liberty and independence in a friendship that a question of this sort would be minimum and rare in my opinion.The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relation ha mostly been on the negative side as I have been hearing about the problems more than the love and trust.In your case too you mention the problem.For a good mother-in-law the person ,i.e the mother-in-law should first be a better person in total to become a good mother-in-law.Any person with hatred or any kind of bad intentions would prove to be not good overall.
Well there will be time when your mother-in-law would try to know you better and your qualities than your weakness.My mother also have suffered from her's but these days since we have moved to our own house things seem better.
@kiran0074u (564)
• India
5 Mar 10
well these kind of things are common if its a good friendship.......normally it happens in college days... yeah i asked my friend some times,.,.,.,.., though it looks funny later, its a good feeling..... i dont feel bad in asking this tomy friend, after all he is friend and he will understand it... right?
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@clocks123 (1225)
• United States
5 Mar 10
i have never asked a friend if they were my friend. instead, i see their actions and words toward me, to see if they are real friends as they say are. actions do speak louder than words.
@tintukm (1102)
• India
15 Mar 10
Well said! actions do speak louder and cleared than words.One would definitely select their own friends with proper care and time.The friendship builds on and on once a good company is found.Asking them to show their love and trust is not that easy because it definitely would show up when needed.
Friends are one and only things that cannot be replaced in this world to be honest,isn't it.
@skbh12 (2946)
• Philippines
8 Mar 10
hi tintukm!
i don't really ask. i see to it whether a person likes me or not. if a person doesn't like me at all, i don't bother to push myself to be liked by him/her. you will know yourself if you are being liked or not by the way they treat you whether it may be through actions or words.
@tintukm (1102)
• India
15 Mar 10
Behavior is the best weapon of showing attitude,isn't it.Friends or any other individual show his/her approach towards us with his way of act towards us and we would understand them right away even though not said.
Its better not asking any kind of questions that would show signs of doubts or untrusted behavior for a long and healthy friendship.
@tintukm (1102)
• India
15 Mar 10
Well the friendship of everyone is so vital.No one questions it and when he/she does so it would take a little time to come back on track.None should doubt anyone's friend,in case of which there should be straight forward asking about the matter to the friend and thus there is solution visible,most of the time,right!
Wonderful that you have never asked such a question!
@Beautyfactor (1512)
•
5 Mar 10
I have never asked my friends if they liked me or not, the thought has never even entered my mind before. I suppose one would assume that your friends do like you otherwise they wouldn't be your friends would they?
@tintukm (1102)
• India
15 Mar 10
The trust is so much a big factor in the way of the friendship's track fro a smoother and encouraging journey.Friends will be friends friends and we would be their supporters,right.This question wouldn't be erupting if the situation goes out of control in a girl and a boy relation,I suppose.Not mostly in a boy boy or even a girl girl relation.
