Freinds on Mylot

I have many names on my list of friends. Some really are friends and others are just acquaintances. I don't acquire friends so that I receive more responses. I don't use friends like that. We cannot communicate outside of the discussions unless we are on each other's list through PMs and many of those on my list added me to be able to ask when they have a problem. I respond where I can and when I can d and when I can relate to a topic, both to those on my list and to others too. I have been here three years and my list has just grown and grown and grown

hi! no one says that he/she can respond to all of the friends discussions, because if you have 100+ friends here on mylot, and each of them post at least one discussion a day, then you will either have to spend more than 4-5 hours here or you have to type like a speed machine, so that you can reply to all of them We add friends or they add us, because they like the way we are posting, and someone also add friends, because of that what you say- to answer to their discussions

hi apocalyhpsereturns what would you have an older user here do, tell every one of the many who ask to be my friends no ? I have not gathered friends randomly at all, all of the friends on my friends list came to me, not vice versa, and what harm are they doing if I cannot respond to all of them? you are indeed new here. what the hell criteria am I supposed to use according to you? if you had asked to be my friend and I had turned you down, wou ld you be happy with me? So you cannot understand the logic? well its simple people asked to be my friend when I first came, I accepted most not all,and I hate to deny everyone who asks. anyway its my logic and my business how many friends I have,noone else's at all.I never started out to collect any friends. bu t I do love a lot of the ones I have, and they have proved to be very good friends. go collect your own few friends,leave the rest of us alone.

When I first started I would get many friend requests and I didn't understand why since I had not interacted with any of the people. Then I realized someone would read something I put in a discussion and then send a friend request.

Personally I have one friend on here but don't care if I have any or not. Wouldn't check all there discussions anyway here to reply to random discussions not make friends.

Practice, caffeine, habit? Well either of these things can cause a mangeable thing or reaction time. I think if you practice it becomes a habit but caffeine gives it a little less time

i have also have a lot of members in my friends list. this is a thing so that i can have more discussions to choose and respond to. have more names in the friends list makes my inbox flood with notifications of new discussions. sometimes it is really tiring to read them all, but i have the option to read and respond. if i have no interest with the discussion or i can't relate to them, i simply delete that email and go to the next one. aside from having more discussions to respond, these members are also notified if i have new topic. but it's up to them too, if they will be interested to read and response to it. but it helps to get more responses in our discussion having more friends in the list.