I was called by brothers name....

@ronaldinu (12422)
Malta
March 5, 2010 2:43pm CST
It happened to me this evening. When I opened the letter box I found a cheque of my online part time job. As I needed to deposit it in my visa card account I went to the nearest bank. As I was filling the deposit slip envelope, the security guard looked at me twice. At first I thought that something might be wrong. Than he asked me :"Do you still live at (such and such a place0?" I replied "I think you have mistook me for someone else, sir". At that time it clicked in my mind that my brother lives there. Than I said most probably you know my brother who is also in the police force. He mistook me for my brother. I told him but we are not look alike. He said that the way I walk, I talk, my eyes are like my brother. I don't see much physical resemblance to be honest. My brother is slightly taller than me. He was a bit muscular than I am. Character wise we are totally opposites. ! However notwithstanding all this it is not the first time that people mistook us for each other. Has this ever happened to you?
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@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
5 Mar 10
Unfortunately, no. My sister is lovely and I am very plain. People used to confuse my two sons, though, especially when they were about 6 years old. They thought they were twins. They actually are "Irish" twins, less than a year apart. Sometimes people recognize others by their manner and actions rather than their faces, especially if they see them from behind.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
5 Mar 10
hi dragon that reminded me of my son's friend Mike who was telling me that he was on the freeway and drove up even with this car, and he thought he saw my son,recognizing him from the long hair he wore at the time, and so he called over to the other car, Hi Robbie, and when the man turned his head Mike could see it was not Robbie but a redneck guy who was furious and yelled at Mike, I aint no GD Robbie. Well Mike was more than a l ittle embarrassed, too the jerk follwed him off the freeway so Mike kept his cool and drove up right in front of the police station. the redneck guy backed up and tore out of there really quick.Mike said, I was not going to tangle with that guy,he was huge and boy was he pissed off.
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@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
5 Mar 10
Good grief, Hatley!! Why in the world would someone get so upset and homicidal just because they were mistaken for someone else?! This world is truly a scary place!
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@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
5 Mar 10
That is weird that people get angry for mistaken identity. I would have said no sorry that's not me but there is no valid reason to be angry. Yesterday my wife was driving for work. There was a man on motorcyle who kept staring at her and even followed her. He kept staring at her as if he is trying to say something to her., that he knows her. I think he might have mistook her for someone else because then he stopped following her and went to another direction.
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@pandaeyes (2065)
6 Mar 10
Oh dear, I have been mistaken for my brother several times in school which is so embarrassing when you are not the same gender. We had very similar hair and features. Of course we now look much less alike. My husband looks very like his late brother.
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@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
6 Mar 10
heheh you make me laugh with your posting :) I am sure you look more feminine that he does some people need glasses...
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@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
8 Mar 10
I remember...even though I was a small boy. They often mistook me for a girl with my long curly black hair.
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@pandaeyes (2065)
7 Mar 10
LOL it was the 1970's and boys hair was often the same length as girls hair. We both had virtually the same style and I have a dimple in my chin which is quite boyish. Standing up,he was about 10 inches taller than me, but sitting down,you couldn't see the difference in height.
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• United States
6 Mar 10
What I get is worse. People see me and they think I'm a teacher Or worse a mother type. I am neither.All you can do is set them straight and move on.
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@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
6 Mar 10
Heheh it means you have a motherly bubbly figure and people feel at ease in your presence!
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@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
6 Mar 10
knew what
• United States
6 Mar 10
If they Only knew....
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
8 Mar 10
Nope, that has never happen to me before.. haha =D Firstly, my brother is alot taller than me, and he's much more slimmer too.. hehe ^_^ 2ndly, he has got a kind of exotic look, while is so different from me, so plain looking, and ugly, according to someone.. lol =D And even if i'm walking along side with my brother, nobody will be able to guesss we are actually siblings!! lol =D
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@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
8 Mar 10
Lucky you that you look different from your brother. Hmm I have never seen you but beauty is in the eye of the beholder :) In Maltese we have a saying that those who makes negative comments might be interested in buying :)
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@pastorkayte (2255)
• United States
12 Mar 10
When my father remarried he married a woman who looked an awful lot like she could be my mom which is great but for some odd reason everytime I visit their town everyone thinks I am my step sister, and guess what we dont share parents at all.
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@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
14 Mar 10
Did you father married a younger girl? Hmm its interesting that even though you are not blood related people think that you are step sisters.
@Mike4me (567)
• Philippines
6 Mar 10
Yes, ALL THE TIME! I have a twin sister tho that looks exactly like me, well that's what other people say but my family members doesnt think so and my close friends as well, specially my fiance. he never thought we were twins because he said, when he first saw me and my twin together, we never looked the same, we got similarities but not really identical. So i guess there are people who doesn't think we are twins, my best friend thought so as well when we first met. It happens to me and my sister all the time, specially when I go to some place and a lot of strangers talk to me and mistaken me for my sister, they always end up being embarrassed after I explain to them that I am my sister's twin and not her. It's really funny most of the time and i liked it, i get to know some of my sister's secrets.
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@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
6 Mar 10
LOL you are a little devil to investigate into your sister's secrets, I am sure she does not like that at all. People who does not know you very well will find it difficult to distinguish between two identical twins. I had two identical twins as friends. i could not distinguish between them very well. Then I managed to do so at a later stage when they grew up. But they made fun of us and many of their teachers at school
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
6 Mar 10
I am glad that you helped your sister out of trouble. Fortunately we have no fraternities here. Are they still popular in your country? What danger do youths who join such fraternities encounter?
@Mike4me (567)
• Philippines
6 Mar 10
that's what my sister and I used to do, made fun of everyone that doesn't know and can't tell which one is me and which one is her. I don't really ask for my sister's secrets, but when we reached college, she was becoming more secretive, she hanged out with the wrong people and joined fraternities. I found out about it because they talked to me one time, without knowing I wasn't my sister, so it is really helpful sometimes. Saved her from danger.
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
6 Mar 10
This has happened to me a lot of times... Many times I was mistook for my brother and my brother also has experienced the same... I'll tell you one incident... One day I had to give my brother a little money when he was studying in college.. I couldn't meet him that evening, so I decided to go to his college and find him and give him the money that he needed... This was a big task, as I hadn't been to his college before and it would be tough to find the pharmacy dept., where he studied. Then I'd have to find his class and then find hime etc... It would take 2 hours, I told myself and prepared myself... Well, I went to the college, asked an official about the pharmacy dept. He directed me and I went there... When I entered the pharmacy dept., I found many people saying 'hi' and 'hello' to me... I wondered 'Whats going on?' Then one of the staff members of the college actually called me by my brother's name and then it dawned upon me that many of the people in the college had taken me for my brother. It was easy to locate him, once I told the officials that I was his elder brother (and not him!). I had prepared to spend 2 hours searching him. But I spent 2 hours seeing his college with him and talking to his friends.. . There have been many such incidents in my life, when people were unable to distinguish between me and my brother. We're not twins! He is 4 years younger to me. He is fairer than me... Our height is almost equal and so is our body structure... Guess, that's why people still find it hard... :) Happy lotting!
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
6 Mar 10
Yeah, my brother is very well liked by all who know him... He has a pleasent personality and frank attitude.. :) In fact, everyone in our family has that kind of personality... It has come from my father, I trust.. :) Have Fun Ronalidinu... Happy Lotting!
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
6 Mar 10
Thanks for sharing! I think that we must give some credit to our parents for our upbringing, character traits etc.
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
6 Mar 10
It seems that you have an easy going brother who is well loved by his friends! Luck you!
@eshaan (6188)
• India
27 Mar 10
it happened to me in my college days..my sister was very thin compared to me, but still don't know what people found and many times her friends used to pat on my back as if they have suddenly found their friend..... i was shocked when it happened first time....but then i became habituated...now after marriage....things have gone opposite...she has gained weight and i am as i was...no changes....there are some family characters...sometimes people also ask whether u are daughter of this and this person....
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
29 Mar 10
Hi eshaan, thank god that your husbands do not mix you heheh My wife resembles her sister a lot. There were time where my wife was slimmer than her sister, than it was vice versa, now it seem that they both gained the same weight and I find it difficult to tell between them when I am looking at their behind.
• United States
6 Mar 10
Hi, ronaldinu! How wonderful to see ourselves as we are, no matter how others may see us. My sister is incredibly beautiful, and we don't look as if we even know each other. On the phone, though, nobody could ever tell us apart, as we have the same voice. At least I think so. We haven't spoken or seen each other in decades!
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@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
6 Mar 10
I hope that you catch up with her. I assume that it's difficult to keep track of your siblings when you live in a big country. Although I live in a small island I don't meet my brother so often even if there is only half an hour distance between us. Though they are always a phone call away!
5 Mar 10
Hi ronaldinu, i have two brothers who are chalk and cheese, but people always mistook them for each other, its just a family resembleance, but they hate it. Tamara
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@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
5 Mar 10
I don't like it much to be honest:)
@savypat (20216)
• United States
5 Mar 10
No it never happened to me, there were only two of us, me and my brother and since I was his sister not much chance of confusion. However I have been mistaken often for others, the older I get the worse it gets, I guess all us little old ladies look alike.
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
5 Mar 10
Mature women are still lovely ::) don't put yourself down....
@wolveren (1586)
• Cebu, Philippines
6 Mar 10
Ah yes. Those are the moments. Like you, I have been mistaken to be my brother. Who is 5 inches taller, almost 75 pounds heavier and about 7 years older. I was annoyed at this at first when I was growing up. But then I figured it must've been his influence on people. He was smart like me. More handsome. But he wasn't as loud all out like me. But I have to say he was older than me and was always the first to go out all over town building his own name. I followed a little later. So everyone mistook me for him and I found that very strange unless we were twins. I always get that "Hey there, you're Ruben right?" line or something like that. And many times I reply kindly "No, I'm his younger brother". Then I get an also annoying reply "Oh you're the brother who roughs people". Damn even they have a false impression of me. I only rough up people who take advantage of the weaker ones. Lol. Imagine that doing all your life. But to my closer friends they know me better as totally different from my older brother. These days, I don't get much of the mistaken brother thingy. I've built my own image thru the years but yeah sometimes it still does happen but not as often as 20 years ago.
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
6 Mar 10
In my case I have to explain that I am his older brother. Mine is a lot louder than me and he is more outgoing picking up on people than I do. I am the quieter type! For some reason or another people still realise that we came out of the same womb :) I guess we have certain characteristics that we resemble each other even if both of us fail to admit! Do you still get mixed for your brother nowadays?
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
8 Mar 10
It’s a strange thing because I don’t believe my sister and I look alike at all because she resembles our mother a lot whereas I look a lot like our father, yet we were in the supermarket together once and this young guy smiled at us and said, “You too must be sisters!” we replied that we don’t look alike but he disagreed. I guess there must be a family resemblance even if we are not aware of it. We put it down to our eyes, that is the only thing we have that is alike, maybe it’s the same with you and your brother like the security guard at your bank said.
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@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
8 Mar 10
We have been produced by the same factory:)! Even if we think we don't have anything in common with our siblings, it seems that strangers are able to detect any slight similarities that we might have.
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@fattymc (140)
6 Mar 10
Oh many times, and sometimes it`s even gotten to the extreme. Sometimes it eventually lead to being mad at my dad. We`ve had problems ever since me and my brother "look alike". It's kind of odd how people say people look alike but don't. It's even come to the point where my dad can't tell the difference between us and can't even tell how old we are because he doesn't know which son he's talking to. But I've gotten used to it.
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@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
6 Mar 10
Are you twins? Or are you older than him?
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
5 Mar 10
hi ronaldinu you must really resemble your brother more than you think. I am sure I do not look at all like my younger sister but have had the unpleasant happening of someone thinking I was her. I got this. "who told you you could take courses here",I was applying at the junior college at the time. I looked at the woman clerk. I said, I beg your pardon.what did you say? She looked at me and said, you are retarded, so why are you even here? I restrained my temper. I said, I have an iq of 150, thats not retarded. she colored and said, arent you Mary Clark? I said, No I am her married older sister Patsie Hatley. My sister was actually more brain damaged at birth than retarded but the results were she had a very low IQ and was definitely handicapped. but even if she had been the one applying that would not have excused the clerk from being so rude. .,
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
5 Mar 10
i am so sorry to hear that your sister has to suffer such abuses. thanks for sharing your not so nice experience. i hope that people do away with prejudice. Even people with low iq have dignity and need to be respected
@saundyl (9783)
• Canada
17 Mar 10
I've gotten called by my younger sisters name often - however she gets my name much more often. And we do look very similar. The thing is we never really bother to correct them because we know atleast they have a general idea whos family we belong to.