Would You Give Up Your Job So Your Co-worker Would Get To Keep Their Job?

@snoopyfan (1312)
United States
March 5, 2010 4:37pm CST
I just read this story about a woman in California. They were having layoffs at her company. One co-worker who was laid off was very upset since it was going to be a hardship for her. The woman who was not laid off went home talked to her husband and they figured out they could still get by if she gave up her job so this co-worker could come back to work. The woman went to her boss and asked if she could be laid off instead and the original co-worker was able to get her job back. If you could afford to do so would you give up your job like this woman did? It is a amazing story and just goes to show there still are good kind hearted people in this world. We always hear bad things just wanted to share a beautiful story. Still want a answer not letting you all of the hook that easy. LOL
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15 responses
• Spain
6 Mar 10
What a beautiful story! People like that woman makes us keep believing this mad world has still a chance to survive the superficiality and egotism that seems to rule it. I could behave like that woman if the job was not my only or principal source. In fact, once I did something similar, while I worked for an insurance company. I heard by chance a conversation between my boss and my manager about a co-worker that had made a mistake, because of which the company would lose some money (around $500). The conversation was about the boss saying to the manager that he should take the "lost" amount from the wage of my co-worker, which could be around 3 times that amount! That happended in Brazil, and such an attitude was completely illegal, but I knew my co-worker would not denounce that for if does, she would certainly be fired. Then I decided to write an email to company's president telling him all the story. As a result, anything happened to my co-worker, the manager was sent to a small country office and I have been fired by the new manager some months later... I felt then, and still feel, proud of that. I think the greatest things happen at the smallest scale.
@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
7 Mar 10
I am sorry things didn't work out for now. I still believe that there are a lot of people who do have good morals and ethics in the work place. You used yours in the work place. In the end God will reward you for your kind acts and stepping up. And that reward is better and beyond anything we get on Earth. Hang in there and keep doing what you are doing.
@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
6 Mar 10
You did the right thing I don't believe in lying or cheating at a job. It is going to come back and if you are involved it will only cause more problems for you. I hope you are now working at a better company with managers who have good ethics and morals. I would have done the same thing and you should feel proud of yourself.
• Spain
7 Mar 10
Thank you! I do feel proud for that. But, no, I've never found another job as good as that one (and that thing happened 10 years ago!). In fact, after that I've started my own bussiness that went bankrupt 5 years latter... As a result of all that thing I decided to try something very different and moved to Spain, where I've lived for the last 5 years, and at the present stage of my life I'm broken because of another own bussiness sittuation, in which I've been betraied by an old friend, that was my partner. I really don't think ethic and moral have nothing to do with "success" in work and bussinss matters. But it doesn't mean I'm gonna change my point of view. Life's what life is! The prize for being what a man is, is to fall asleep in all conscience.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
5 Mar 10
If I could afford to, I'd already be gone... I know my husband though. He would never agree to this for somebody he doesn't really know. He would agree to it if we could afford to and if I wanted to badly enough.
@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
5 Mar 10
From what I could gather from the story I think this was a close group so everyone knew each others.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
5 Mar 10
I don't think he would care how close a group we are. Family first and pblllllllll to everybody else...
@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
5 Mar 10
You have to make sure you can keep a roof over your head first. Amen to that one. If the answer is no then there is no way you could do it.
• United States
6 Mar 10
This just shows that there are still good people out there. If I was in that position I would first have to look at my finances. If I was able to get by and know that I could get another job or I would get one of my book published. If I knew this person personally and knew to what extent the hardship would be on her then I would probably do it. But I would have to be in a good position to do that because right now everyone is having financial troubles and it's hard to just give up a job like that, knowing that you have bills to pay. It's a hard time right now for everyone. But I really admire that woman for what she did. It just goes to show that this world is not as bad as it seems. There is still some good out there somewhere.
@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
6 Mar 10
You are right it is very hard in these times and even if you could afford it who knows what is going to happen down the road and how hard it will be to find another job.
• United States
6 Mar 10
I have never had this happen but I feel I would do the same thing. If I could make it without keeping my job I would. Right now I do not work but feel if it was me I would. Not only that since this is a layoff I could get unemplyemtn too so I would still have some kinda of money coming in. This is a nice thing to do and I am glad some people are still caring out there.
@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
6 Mar 10
Yes and this is a city job so I am sure there are some benefits this woman will be getting so there will be a little income coming from her side.
• Estonia
6 Mar 10
I am not sure, if I would be ready to do that. It all depends on circumstances. If I would be able to survive without any problems, then I would consider giving up the job. It also depends on whether the other co-worker would survive without this job or not. If that person would be destroyed by losing that job and would have no means for existing, I would leave my workplace for him/her.
@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
6 Mar 10
The original co-worker who would have been out of work was a 60 year old woman. It would have been hard for her to find another job at that age.
@MrKennedy (1978)
5 Mar 10
Although this may sound selfish of me, hell no Well, if I knew I could easily get another job that I would prefer, then of course. But during times like these, when the job market is tight, there isn't a chance in hell I'd give up my position
@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
5 Mar 10
It is not selfish honestly I don't think the majority of people could or would. I am looking for honest answers. No right or wrong or do I think less of people responding saying no. Thank you for your honesty.
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
6 Mar 10
It is not selfish at all I mean it is hard to find another job in this economy with so many families loosing homes and so many of needing to find other ways to supplement our income with mylot, Associated Content, and other places online.
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
6 Mar 10
If my family could make it with jus tmy husband's income until I could find anoher job, then yes I would give up my position so someone else would be able to keep theirs. Sometimes its about doing what would help someone else out who really needs it.
@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
6 Mar 10
It is very cool to see that people do care and will help others when and if they can. Not a easy thing to do and hope things work out for all.
@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
6 Mar 10
Hello snoopyfan, Nice question.....I think it all depends on your own financial status and responsibilities on your shoulders. If you have a family who is depended just on your earning, then you cannot effort to have such a thrifty heart to give up something that is really your necessity and not just hobby. On the other hand if your bank balance is fine and you are not the only saviour of your family and you are a kind person, you may not hesitate to do it. Personally, I would gladly do it if I can....I love to help.....but I am not so rich.......still whenever I can help people , I love to do it.
@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
6 Mar 10
Same here I am barely making it but I try and help people anyway I can. I love helping people as well.
@Chad525 (349)
• Canada
6 Mar 10
Not a chance. Fantastic story, but unfortunately, I'm not at that point where I can get by without a job, so I'll keep working. Sorry to my co-worker who'll lose their job though lol
@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
6 Mar 10
I couldn't either I guess what I could do is help them with food or if they belong to a church see what programs they have to help them until they find a job. And of course keep my eye out for jobs for them.
• United States
5 Mar 10
I don't think I could give up my job for someone else. We need to work to pay our bills, we don't make enough w/o both of us working right now even if I only work a few hours a week. But if we were well established & financially secure w/o me working then perhaps. I will say that's very honorable of her to ask that of her boss. Did they oblige and lay off the one who volunteered?
@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
5 Mar 10
Yes they did she took the original person's place and is now home with her kids. The woman said that she and her husband will just tighten their budget but they can make it. The co-worker who was allowed to come back was in tears when she found out how she was able to come back to work.
6 Mar 10
If I could afford to and if I got on with the other worker yes, if not then no.
@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
6 Mar 10
Thanks I am in the same boat a lot of people are.
@kaylachan (70169)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
6 Mar 10
If I knew I could survive on a single income, I would probably do it. But its not easy and I would be looking for another job as soon as I could. Right now isn't the time to be out of work, and it is because the economy is so shittttttttty. I don't know how else to discribe it. sad but true.
@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
6 Mar 10
Right that is what made me post this. I really hope this lady who gave up her job has everything work out for them. It's great she did it but also a risk in case her husband loses his job. I hope she will find a new job sooner than later. This economy doesn't look like it is going to get better anytime soon.
@Cutie18f (9551)
• Philippines
6 Mar 10
I should say she is a very generous person. I am sure that she will have more blessings to come her way. I am sure that she will be able to get by with her equally good husband. If it happens to me, and I know that I will still be able to survive even without the job, I would probably choose to be getting the ax and let the employee that needs it more stay.
@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
6 Mar 10
Awesome to see we have a lot of kind caring people in this world. Yes this woman is very generous to do this.
@iamamommy (163)
• United States
5 Mar 10
If i had the money to do so then i would so the other person could make a living. Some people out there have obs even tho they have lots of money and it leaves other people without jobs. The people without jobs have kids and a family they need to support and it makes it hard on their everyday living expecially with these hard times, its hard to get a job anywhere. You need an eduacation to get a job.
@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
5 Mar 10
I know it is very hard to get a job right now. I have a part-time job and I have been looking for a full-time for awhile. Even people with degrees are having a hard time as well.
• United States
5 Mar 10
It would be very generous to do this. If I were feeling well I would.
@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
5 Mar 10
Especially in these times and if you can afford it. I couldn't right now but if I was in the same position I believe I would. I was taught that if you could help someone you should.