Do You Accept All My Lot Friends Requests?
By snoopyfan
@snoopyfan (1312)
United States
March 5, 2010 4:44pm CST
When you are requesting a lotter as a friend is it because you like their responses in a discussion. Are you just picking them to have a lot? Trying to get referrals?
I pick on a few different reasons. At times it will be a response and I want to know the person a little bit more.
I also pick based on avatars because to me is shows some of their personality. If they are silly I assume that is someone with a great sense of humor.
I always accept anyone who requests me as a friend I never ask why but I am touched that for whatever reason they wanted me on their list. It may be for some of the same reasons I already mentioned. I figure if they can take the time to ask I am going to take the same time and accept them.
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@gogierm4ge (398)
• United States
5 Mar 10
Yes. Actually I do except when my finger slips
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@hofferp (4734)
• United States
6 Mar 10
I've requested only a few friends, and it was based on their responses to questions/discussions. From their responses, I thought we had "things" in common, thought about life much the same, etc. Just our being in the same discussion showed me we had "things" in common. I thought, when I started MyLotting, that I would only accept friends I thought I had "things" in common with. But it's turned out, I feel much like you, Snoopyfan, "I am touched that for whatever reason they wanted me on their list". So I've accepted all friend requests...
@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
6 Mar 10
Exactly and after I accepted them and I see them in a discussion it makes me want to respond to them more. It's like a quick hey friend how is it going. It makes it more fun for me and I can see how people are doing.
@onlyprincess (782)
• Philippines
6 Mar 10
Yes, I accept all friend requests. I'm not choosy and I don't base my acceptance on what they post or what is their ranking. Everyone's welcome here in mylot and the more, the merrier. 
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@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
6 Mar 10
I don't really pay attention to the ratings that much. I like you am open to all no matter posts or rankings either. tx
@joebrpt84 (85)
• Malaysia
6 Mar 10
i am new here and i don't have many friend request and so far i have accepted all of them...
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@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
6 Mar 10
The more you come on here and be active you will get more people requesting to be your friend. Just be yourself and great things will happen.
@ET28LV (1890)
• Latvia
5 Mar 10
When I was requesting people to do a friend, I add all who responses on discussions i have liked, newbies. I approve all friendship invitations, i don't watch does he have responses to discussions only 6 or 1000, i don't watch to ratings too. I agree with you, the avatars says so much about people nature. I simply want to fin new friends. At his moment i don't have any referrals.
@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
5 Mar 10
I don't have referrals either. And for your laugh of the day you will be seeing me as a request because earlier I requested you based on that adorable puppy avatar you have. I have a smile on my face right now when I saw you responded on here. small world right?
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@3SnuggleBunnies (16374)
• United States
5 Mar 10
no I don't. Usually I base it on types of discussions they start, respond to ect. Sux when you get their discussion notifications & it's mostly thing you are not interrested in.
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@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
5 Mar 10
I turn off the notifications and just look on the home page to see what friends are talking about. Some I respond and some I don't. Good point as well tx.
@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
6 Mar 10
I notice a lot of people put the rookies through the test. LOL How long do you give them? Thanks for your feedback.
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@ghieptc (2522)
• Philippines
6 Mar 10
I usually accept all mylotters friend request, definitely for no reason I only want is to have more friends no matter who they are I'm open to anyone who wants to make friends with me. And get in touch with them if they want to talk about something or open up anything I'm very willing to listen.
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@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
6 Mar 10
I am the same way open to anyone and everyone here. Thanks
@iamexpensive09 (81)
• Philippines
6 Mar 10
yes! since im new here, i would love to gain some friends. comment on a post they started and share little experience, opinions and views on different topics or concerns. so feel free to add me. ill be more than wiling to accept your requests :) happy myLotting! :)
@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
6 Mar 10
I will do that and the more you are active you will see people will request to be your friend.
@shahbazkharadi (81)
• Pakistan
6 Mar 10
hi snoopy fan iam new here but iam sure ill accept all the friends request because for whatever reason a person is requesting you to be his friend i will be his friend that will increase my friends list and so the chances for the response on the discussion which i start will get more and that will also be good for the publicity of your website i beleive
i will not mind if i had to approve 1000 request per day obviously 1000 wont came iam not a special person but just for discussion if i get 1000 request per day ill accept all of them i will make as many friends as i can that will give me some publicity and opinions will be read by many friends
@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
6 Mar 10
If you can get 1000 requests in one day you will be well known around here for sure.
@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
7 Mar 10
I am not sure if even Brad Pitt could get that many unless his kids can keep requesting. LOL. I have a feeling you are going to be more sincere and honest than Brad Pitt would be. Now if you said George Clooney I would have agreed with you.
@shahbazkharadi (81)
• Pakistan
6 Mar 10
yah but sadly i cant get 1000's of them do you know why?iam shahbaz not bradpitt :d lolz
@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
6 Mar 10
Same here I see you are a rookie just stay active and respond as much as you can to discussions. You will start getting requests in no time.
@keelymcilwain (797)
• Canada
6 Mar 10
Currently I have accepted everyone's request. I need more friends so I can see more updated top discussions. I have about 2 or 3 every time I log on. I try to check out their profiles to see any topics they may have started. I am still kind of a newbie on here and do not have very many active friends.
@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
6 Mar 10
I have only been with My Lot a few months myself the more you are on here and be active with discussions you will have more people requesting to be your friend. When I first started I wasn't on here much the past couple of weeks I have been and the results are like night and day. The same will happen for you as well.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
6 Mar 10
i accept everyone who request for friendship. but before i actually make the acceptance, i see their profiles first. maybe, it is just proper to see where the member came from.
@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
6 Mar 10
It is amazing that My Lot is all over the world and some of the countries people are from. I don't travel so this is as close I am going to get learning about people from other countries and cultures.
@lucygelato (161)
• Philippines
6 Mar 10
yes i do accept! they add me because they want me to be part of their mylot so no way for me not to accept them, and i hope if ill add them, they will accept me too. heheheh
@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
6 Mar 10
Yes it is a nice feeling when you get a request to know something you said or did made them want to know you better. Everyone here is very welcoming and open to accepting others.
@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
6 Mar 10
avatars are just one of the things because I love animals or characters. So they stand out for me. It just tells me a little bit about them. tx
@masterzukhruf (160)
• Indonesia
6 Mar 10
Dear snoopyfan,
Yes, I do. I will accept all myLot Friends Requests. I just accepting 2 friend requests.
@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
6 Mar 10
Thanks same here I give everyone the thumbs up sign and accept them. tx
@phungminhthu (176)
• Singapore
6 Mar 10
well,i don't accept all the friends request!I would choose first...then accept some of the requests!
@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
6 Mar 10
That's fine I don't think everyone has to accept all the requests. It is everyone's choice on if they want to accept or not. thanks
