nagger or silent type?

Nagging never helps! In any kind of relation, nagging makes matters worse... Simply because when one is nagged, he/she is being assaulted, which is not liked by any of us... I never argue with my fiancee. We never criticize or nag each other, for any mistake... We have talked about this at earlier stages and I have explained to her that it is always good to sit and talk about what is wrong! Talking and discussing the issue calmly, helps a lot and moreover there're no hard feelings... The feeling is generally,that that I am being understood by my partner.. That one feeling gives rise to a lot... It adds value to the relationship! I advice everyone never to nag... :) Happy lotting!

I asked my fiance about this question just now and he sad "yes you are", and I didn't know about it I always thought I'm the silent one, well not between the two of us but I don't nag, i guess. i just talk all the time. it's embarrassing.

You know,Lucy, Nagging can put you into serious trouble.. In fact I am a silent type of person,and I prefer solving things in a good, peaceful and in silent manner and I do get irritated if someone speaks so much,in order to solve the problem.Its better to talk about or discuss about the problem just once or twice and not more than that.If someone respects you,then he/she will listen to it on the first go.I think,its better to speak,whatever you thinks. Unnecessary pretending or keeping quiet complicated the situation.

I am a silent type, but i am nagging to whom really really bother me. It is all depend on the situation. I try to control as much as possible to not nagging. I know it is annoying to hear someone nagging. Take a deep breath 2 or 3 times could stop you from nagging out. Lucygelato, i guess you should stop nagging cause it is bother other.

it is better to be outspoken, to say whatever you want to say about your relationship. it is not good to be quiet because it cant resolve the problems between the two of you. i dont say that you have to be a loud mouth when both of you are talking. me and my partner are both outspoken to each other. if we remain silent then our argument will not come to an end.

Hi lucygelato. Well, I believe I am more of the nagger type. I cannot stand being quiet in an argument. It annoys me as well if in the middle of arguing my partner chooses to be silent and walks out whenever I raise my point. Me too, I cannot control myself in situations like these. I tried but I feel like I cannot fully express what I feel if I keep silent.

I usually am the nagger. I have noticed lately that I am keeping quite if I disagree with something he says or does. Than he will look at me and say what is it? I think it is kinda of funny in a way. He knows that he upsets me sometimes and I think when I do not say anything he does not understand why I am being so quite. For now I think I will stay quite instead of opening my big mouth. Happy mylotting to you.

I'm not so sure what it best. It always feels good to have your opinion heard and tell what you think is right and not right about something.. but it isn't always appreciated. With my current bf, he gets really mad when I give my opinion..even though I'm not trying to nag. He thinks I'm being smart and talking back. So I've found it's best that I just keep my mouth shut and agree with him. I still hate it though.