Friends as Neighbours? What are your thoughts?

Canada
March 6, 2010 12:15am CST
Well our neighbours house is available for rent for April 1st. We have a friend that is looking for a place. We told him about it and he is going to see it on Tuesday. What would you say the pros vrs cons are with having a close friend as a neighbour? I know there will be the ups and downs. I think some of the ups would be: -always have company. -someone to go visit. -we both have 2 dogs that get along so now they can play all the time. -when we need something it is very close to go to borrow things. -someone to keep a eye on our house when we are away or out. Some of the cons would be: - someone borrowing things all the time. - someone coming to use the phone every day. - someone coming to use the computer every day. - someone knowing our where about's at all times. - someone that you can't hide from. lol What are some that you can think of?
1 response
@lilybug (21107)
• United States
6 Mar 10
I think having a friend as a neighbor might be kind of fun assuming it is the right friend. I think some kinds of friends would make better neighbors than others. If your friend is one of those needy kind of friends then it might not be such a good idea. If they are needy now they will be worse when they are living next door and they can ask you for things more often. I would also want it to be a friend that I have known awhile and I know we would get along long term. The last thing you want is to be living next door to an EX friend.