Someone says you bad so he is bad. Should he be a freind any more?

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We are offended if someone says us bad. He says me bad so he is bad. It is common feelings of us. Is it right that someone who say bad of us really a bad guy? What do you do with those people who says you bad. Do you consider his comment and try to find what the cause let him say bad of you? Or do you through out of you door for ever? Most people don't like criticism. We all eager to hear pleasing talk from other. Who say to please us is our friend. But are we really good that all people says good of us. Have you ever justify how good is you? Are we really good that all people always praise us. But I always double on the people who try to praise me. I want to figure out why the people want to praise me. I feel that I have no quality that makes people praise me. There is a question always in me that whether people are not flattering me? But if some one criticize me i like it and with a very open mind I want to justify why I am criticized. Criticism is a opportunity to know the disability. Normally we ignore our fault. And those are not hidden in people eye. So if some one say something bad of me then I get the opportunity to figure out that and try to correct myself.