what's the most hard to endure when you quarrel with your lover?
By tina256
@tina256 (190)
China
March 6, 2010 1:49am CST
i think quarrel is very nomal between the people in the relationship in our life .
it is like a crazy that we can't take notice of each other ,just in order to protect oneself .
in this time ?what is the most hard to accept after quarreling?
for me ,i can't endure that quarreled in the street of sunburb,and then he leave me alone there and run away . at this time ,i can not know what i can do ,i just more angry ,even i don't know where i can go ,just see the street lamp and scare that maybe someone will turn up suddenly .
as i kept crying at that time .
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what is yours ?do you have this experience?
2 responses
@mhaibless (210)
• United States
15 Mar 10
Being united in a quarrel means a lot. The problem isn't both of you but your differences. Every couple is bound to have differences and disagreements, but healthy couples find a way to resolve romantic disputes without turning them into a full-fledged war. Some way to resolve problems are: Set a time and place for discussion. Define what the problem is. Brainstorm possible solutions. Discuss each solutions. Agree on how both of you will work toward the solution. Constantly review your progress. And reward each other with a big hug.
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
9 Mar 10
What was enduring every quarrel is the things have been said and done with all the harsh words spoken in anger...realizing i've caused pain to someone i dearly love, but then again, its worth it as long as it would cause better understanding in a relationship.
