will you hire a woman to bear your baby (surrogate mother) or prefer adoption?
By ksmita
@ksmita (513)
India
March 6, 2010 3:49am CST
hi. there are many reasons for infertility. parents go through a tough time . but with the advancement of technology, there are many ways you can fulfill your dream of having a baby. as medical treatments are expensive and time consuming , many parents opt for easy options like adoption or surrogation. parents fear of rejection in adoption process too. is it easy or possible for a woman to hire another woman to bear baby for her? does anyone have more info about surrogation( i don't think this usage is correct) what are the pros and cons of this?
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@melloncollie (661)
• Philippines
7 Mar 10
I guess there is nothing wrong with it. It's ok with me if my wife and I gets someone to bear our baby. If we really want a child of our own so much and if it's the only way, we'll do it. But of course there are a lot of technicalities and issues that needs to be tackled before this process commences. There should be a legal documentation that the woman can not claim the child as hers. Things like that.
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@homeshoppers (6166)
• Philippines
6 Mar 10
i heard about the surrogate mother thing, sometimes it turned out well but sometimes the mother of the child change her mind and rather want to keep the baby for herself. besides they still need to pay the mother same as adoption. if the guy are capable of having a child then perhaps they can pay someone to bear the guy's baby if the mother have the capacity then they can go for the test tube baby. at least the baby still from their own blood.
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