Mom in Love with your Husband

Hi, I think if I found myself in her place, I would divorce the husband and never talk to either one of them ever again. Both the mother and the husband should be ashamed of themselves for the position they put this girl in. I hope there are no children involved in their marrage. Tianna

I do not know what is it, but its seriously not right, its insane.

It's her son-in-law and if her daughter hadn't find him and her mother had found him first it would be okay, but this lady hadn't seen her future son-in-law beforehand so she hadn't had the chance to fall in love in past. Maybe you judge this as crazy stuff cause all involved are part of a family, but what you should stress on is the fact that mother things mostly about her and not about her daughter and she makes her own child sad that way. This mother should have reject her love and desire to her son-in-law in the name of her daughter but maybe she'd tried for a long period and just couldn't go on rejecting her feelings - we don't know all the facts so we can't just say - "this mom is a senseless b**ch" and not try to see the other side - we don't know if she'd tried for long to cope with her feelings and desires...

i have not heard about a thing its very un natural . the mom should have not done like this . son in law is like son . he should have also not had such an affair . he is cheating his wife and so is the mom . i would be very embarassing for all of them in their family . i think the mistake would have been with the mom only ./

Let them have each other. Apparently they deserve to be with each other because they continue in their relationships even after two abortions. That right there would tell me something. They probably had the abortions so no one could find out. So they killed two innocent people to keep their relationship going and they still do not know what to do? It is sad that this happened. She needs to take a good long look at herself because she cannot change anyone else. She needs to as herself is this acceptable behavior? Is this what she married into? If it's not her mother than who else has he been or will there be a chance he be with someone else? She need to look at her needs and wants. If it does not fit the bill then she should cut the ties. I personally would not be able to talk or face them for their betrayal and the fact that they robbed me of knowing my potential brother or sister. I mean their actions destroyed life for a moment of pleasure. Each person should make a well educated decision of what they want in life . She deserves to be happy and it may hurt now but you cannot second guess your relationship either. Good luck and take on this hard decision.