if you are still really in love with your ex what would you do?

Jamaica
March 6, 2010 8:12pm CST
i must admit that i still have strong feelings for ex boyfriend because of something terrible that i have said to him many years ago. i have tired to talk to him after that but he does not want to deal with me. i am currently in a relationship and i really love and respect my boy friend but i just can not seem to get over my ex boy friend. i even tell my boy friend about it. what should i do?
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@EARLZHAN (934)
• Philippines
8 Mar 10
Hi friend.. Well what you have to do is to think about it for a thousand times. Should you continue your current relationship or leave it and go back to your ex.In that case you need to consider the consequences that you might encounter after having a decission. Are you happy with your current relatioship? Does your current boy friend loves you very much? If yes, then think about it. Is it worthy to leave your boy friend and go back to your ex? The question is, does you ex still loves you? Do you think he is willing to accpt you and forget about what happened in the past to start again? Is yest think about it friend. If you go back to your ex do you think you will be happy with him? if yes then go on.. If not don't do it. Remember you have to be very careful or else you will lose them both and you'll end up with two exe's. LOL
• Philippines
7 Mar 10
well since you already have boyfriend right now then i guess you must let yourself go from your ex past to avoid any problem with your current relationship. besides if your ex really want you then he will be the one to find way to get you back. so just forget him and enjoy being with your new boy friend. just consider your ex as the one whose not lucky enough to have you rather be the one to think that its your lose to lost your ex.
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
7 Mar 10
Well I guess your ex does not want to be involve with you again so the best thing to do right now is to move on with your life. I think there is nothing you can do about that. A word of advice before entering into a new relationship please make sure that you have already moved on and maybe had a closure with your past relationships. Some feels that to be over the past relationships you would need to get a new one to forget the past but then it is a wrong move for me. I think to be get a new one you should finally close the past and learn to love again in a new perspective. Well I think, that would be very painful thing to know that you told your current BF about your past and still are clinging on to it despite you accepted him as your current BF. I would really feel that you have used him just so to evade your past.
• United States
7 Mar 10
I was in a similar position a few months ago. I just got back together with an ex, and i befriended my other ex. The other one-who i wasnt dating- loved me and i broke his heart.. well we tlked it out and decided to friends. there was still this attraction tho, and everyone could feel the tension. neither of us really cared for who we were dating with at the moment, but would never cheat. we told each other how we felt, complete honesty.. i broke up with my boyfriend. it just wasnt fair, if i didnt really feel towards him and that i was considering another guy. but i didnt expect anything from my ex-who has a girlfriend and is my friend- and i knew if i sumpred the guy he would probly stay with his girl, i wasnt going to giv him an ultimatum. he stayed with his girlfriend and they actually got closer and are a really sweet couple now-so he made the right decision. its up to you. you have to consider if you really want to let go, and of who? you can be friends, but it might b worse stringing both along over time-hard on you and them.