If He's Completely Lost In The Bedroom... Do You Give Him A 2nd Chance?
@sherrypeck19822001 (228)
United States
6 responses
@cobrateacher (8432)
• United States
8 Mar 10
Hi, Sherry!
Second chances aren't necessary. A bit of teaching can go a long way. Most men do want the experience to be the best it can be, and are grateful for instruction if it's give carefully and without insult!
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@sherrypeck19822001 (228)
• United States
8 Mar 10
I'm thinking of instructing him, as well as showing him some of the books that I have read that have helped me hone my skills.
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@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
8 Mar 10
I do agree with cobrateacher... don't hurt the male pride in the process! :)
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
8 Mar 10
Can i answer that??
I will definitely give myself another chance!! lol =D OR rather, i will not let it happen at all!! BEcause it's such a huge turn off, and all moods can change.. Not only for that one time, but maybe in the future as well, due to the 'phobai' created.. hehe ^_^
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
8 Mar 10
I am a guy!:) I am a teacher. If you are in a stable relationship with someone it comes naturally to be intimate with your partner. If your better half is not good at it, there is no other way than to teach him how the female anatomy is. Speak to him what is your likes and dislikes. What turns you on what does not.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Mar 10
hi sherrypeck I had to think a little about that, as I had not come upon that p roblem when we were first married. but when my husband had to have cancer surgery on his colon, a lot of nerves were cut, and he had a hard time in the love making department but we had talked to the surgeons and they had suggested several techniques which made our new form of lovemaking satisfying for us both. So yes if you really loved the guy and he was not too great in the bedroom you could be gentle and loving and show him some tricks to help you both out. It is odd but a lot 
of guys do not really know the female anatomy.
of guys do not really know the female anatomy.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Mar 10
I've never run into the problem, but I guess if I really liked him, we really seemed compatible in every other way and if he was willing to learn I might.
@Tianna2 (1273)
• United States
8 Mar 10
Hi Sherrypeck, If you really like this guy then its worth showing him how to do the things you like to have done, I think comunication here is key. You both have to be able to talk about how each other feels and that you two can both work on this. These things dont alway come natural and may not have a lot of experiance so yeah, if I really like the guy, I would give him another chance as long as he was open to some helpful instruction.
Hugz, Tianna
