break up

Hi Skbh, It totally depends on person to person, we cannot say for all men, it would be wrong on our behalf to say that. If you are still friends with your ex boy friend you should talk to him directly and ask him, if you think asking him is not good for yourself, then try to judge him and see if he has moved on or is he still not sure, if he has moved on, chances are very bright for that, then I guess you need to also move on and explore your options, life is for moving on, with or without pain.

i do not know how long for a man to realize that. but based on my experience if the man does loves you very much then he wont take much time to back you again. with my experience with my boyfriend. we have been broke up for 2 weeks and i never stop to text him and email him. but you know what i do to bring him back to me and to miss me that much. i never text him and email him for 3 days. so you know what he do. at the middle of my sleep he called me up. so then it goes. our relationship is in good terms again. my advice for you is to keep distance from your ex, do not text him or call him or see him so that he could realize how he misses you and loves you.

I think that if you had problems back in your relationship yet could not sort them out then,why do you think that you maybe able to sort them out in the future.I think that no matter how long people have been in a relationship for if there have been problems aswell as break ups then there are going top be doubts in both of your minds to if things will work out ok.Good luck,but do not leave it too long before you try to talk and sort what ever the problems are.

If you both decided to give each other a space then give it at least time so that both of you could take and go for the right choice. based on my own experienced, when we both agreed for "cool off" we considered it as break-up, AFTER then never see each other again.. both had move on, and found another love after few months, then when Our eyes met at the campus,. he smiled at me and so did I.

hello skbh... i have boyfriend too. the word break up, sound is very cruel. i and my boyfriend often quarrel too. the think is we must understand from both side. normally we take some times to think but not less than one day. try to understand and do not keep so much time that normally we do. i want everything come back like normal. love is not a game where you can fall in love easily or you forget them easily. love is about giving. its depend on man to realize certain things, but if he do love you, i am sure he will try to keep the relationship. both side must try talk slowly, do not let it too long.

It shows that you love him that much and I can only say that there are no basis on how long because if you will rush him, it may end up loosing the relationship. Just let him take his time to think of the situation in God's plan if he is really meant for you then God will find a way to him to let him know how important you are to him. So i think for now, the best thing you can do while waiting is to be more of yourself, love yourself more so that it will be easy for some to love you back. Show him that you are still there for him and if in the long run that wont change the situation at least you can say to your self that you did your part and you just love a person. Be positive...Maybe this week, everything will be alright..

i guess it depends to him, if he found another girl then im sure he will going to be busy with the girl first then he will make comparison that your still the best then thats the only time he can realize that he needs you more and so he will try to win you back but if he enjoyed being with the girl then you will be totally out from his life. so instead of waiting if he will win you back then try to move on, go out with friends, open with another possible love, go out for a date so you will forget him.

It depends on how you guys feel for each other, he will be back if his love for you is immeasurable