to invite or not to invite...
By pentagan12
@pentagan12 (757)
Philippines
March 8, 2010 12:42am CST
I am going to have a small birthday celebration few days from now. I invited almost all of my close friends. I have this another friend of mine who happened to be my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend. They had a relationship for just very short period of time before us. I knew it before because we were really close friends long time ago. Now, we are still friends but not as closed as before. I am just confused if I'm going to invite her or not during my birthday celebration. I feel awkward and uncomfortable when she's around especially if I'm with my boyfriend. I know, I shouldn't feel this way because they already broke up after many long years and that they were still very young at that time when they had a relationship. But I just don't want her to be part of us once again. Am I going to invite her or not?
2 responses
@mylosha (286)
• India
8 Mar 10
if you have real friendship other than other thought then you go ahead and invite her and refresh your friendship again and keep some barrier within you that will be better to keep relation between your friend.
@rachel999 (210)
• India
8 Mar 10
Hi Pentagan, If you invite this girl for the party, it will not do you good, reason your concentration will be more on her, where is she, is she talking to my man, why are they smiling, you know what I mean, it will just be a headache, you will not be able to enjoy your own party, the best is to avoid her for good. Good Luck & God Bless